For more than 2 years, NHT went to work abroad, only on the occasion of the Lunar New Year could he return to visit his family, wife and children. During a week of going up and down to visit relatives, then immersed in the year-end party… Mr. T felt tired. It was only on the last day of the old year that he had time to spend with his family.
On New Year’s Eve, after completing the formalities, the new husband and wife were able to get close, and Mr. T’s wife definitely “didn’t let” because “at the beginning of the year, having sex is bad luck for the whole year”. After a while of arguing back and forth, the couple got angry.
There are many conflicting views about “love” on New Year’s Day
According to some experts, the issue of sex during the New Year holidays has many opposing views and opinions. Many people fear that having sex during Tet is prone to “high malice”, but there are opinions that at New Year’s Eve or the first days of the new year abstain from doing “sex” so as not to be “black” all year.
However, from the point of view of obstetricians and some sexologists, abstaining from “sex” on New Year’s Day is unnecessary and there is no basis to prove sex on New Year’s Eve, on New Year’s Day. 1 will be unlucky.
Doctor Dinh Huu Viet, Hanoi Hospital of Andrology and Infertility, said that the transition time from the old year to the new year should be completely avoided, which is just word of mouth.
“Sex is also a human activity. If you are reluctant or worried about bad luck at the beginning of the year, you will not achieve the desired quality. If you feel comfortable, the relationship is normal, achieving satisfaction for both parties. ” – Doctor Viet said.
Citing the ancient concept, a sexologist said that according to the ancient Eastern sexual concept, the first taboo about sexual practice is not to have intercourse on the first day of the lunar month, the middle of the lunar month. (at the full moon) and the end of the month, New Year’s Eve or the beginning of the year.
Traditional Eastern concepts also say that men and women should not have sex on the 1st or full moon day because the lunar magnetic field affecting the earth is maximum, which is not good for human health.
However, the concept of “abstinence” or “not abstaining” from sex depends on the circumstances of each person. There are families who for a living, rarely see each other, sometimes only on New Year’s Eve can they be closest to each other for the longest time, but having to abstain from sex is really unreasonable.
Sexual issues have been recognized more openly and properly by society
With the same point of view, obstetrician Le Thi Kim Dung said that if someone said that having sex on the first day of the year would be unlucky, they did not understand correctly. Our forefathers have long attached great importance to fertilityism, which is reflected in the “sex” festivals in Phu Tho, or the procession of “precious penises” in Lang Son…. are held in early spring.
“So to see that, from the past until now, fertilityism has been very sacred, the intention reminds us that we need to do it to maintain the race,” said Dr. Dung.
Taboos when doing “sex” during Tet
In terms of science, experts also believe that sexual activity is a basic, legitimate and equal need of every human being. Recently, sex has been recognized by society more openly and properly, considering it as a normal physiological need and understanding the positive effects of sex such as improving health, reducing stress, fatigue. fatigue, making married life more satisfying and happy.
For healthy people, moderate sexual activity is not only mentally satisfying but also good for the cardiovascular system. Maintaining sexual relations helps to keep the couple’s life closer.
“Love is a legitimate desire and need for everyone. When two people have feelings for each other, they both want to have sex, there is no reason to forbid them, no abstinence procedure can forbid it, as long as it’s nothing. Both are satisfied,” said Dr. Dung.
The doctor recommends some times to abstain from doing “sex”
Doctor Nguyen Dinh Lien, Head of the Department of Urology and Nephrology, Hospital E, said that whether it is a weekday or a New Year’s day, sex is always shared and must be done when both are at their fullest both mentally and physically. physical. Whether sex should or not depends on the health of two people, should not be confused or influenced too much by folk beliefs.
However, it should also be noted that you should not have sex after eating too much, causing bad effects on the stomach and digestive tract. When the body is too tired after preparing and partying on New Year’s Day, you should not try to have sex. Moreover, having sex after taking a lot of these stimulants can adversely affect health, even leading to a stroke.
“In fact, we have met many cases of patients admitted to the hospital in the state of cavernous rupture (penis fracture) while having sex. Some patients were hospitalized in the first days of the new year for the reason that Drinking alcohol with relatives, then the couple still have sex.
Due to not being awake, the husband “loves” a bit too much and an accident occurs. Therefore, when men are drunk or in a state of using stimulants, they should limit sex to avoid unfortunate accidents that may happen,” Lien advised.