These days, a story that comes from USA has attracted people’s attention. Leaving aside monogamy and emotional and sexual exclusivity with your partner, which tends to predominate in different types of societies, an influencer confessed to being a participant and enjoying an open relationship.
This is the story of Madi Brooks, 19 years old, who from his social account of TikTok narrated a singular situation. According to the young woman, Every time you are “not in the mood” to have sex with your partner, let your partner “have fun” with your sister and mother..
The American, who has more than 200,000 followers in the video application and works as a teacher, according to local media, clearly clarified that lead a swinger life, in which you allow your romantic partner to sleep with other people, even family members.
“My mother and I are swingers. It’s cool, you know why? Because when I don’t feel like it, my mom can take care of my husband. I let my husband have it a couple of times a week, ”said the woman in a video.
BrooksHowever, he not only mentions his mother, but also his sister. In this way, these family members play a role with unusual dynamics. “Do you want to know how I keep my partner happy? Left let him and my sister play, ”said the woman defiantly.
The videos, some of which exceed eight million views, have left many TikTok users baffled. “How did that conversation start?” One pointed out. Meanwhile another said: “I do not know how anyone could share, but it is your life.”
Types of couple: swinger or polyamory
In couple relationships there are not only monogamous couples, currently there are different ways of bonding depending on the preference and freedom of each person.
Swingers is a sexual practice that consists of exchanging partners. That is, an established couple agrees with another to have sexual encounters. These acts are always carried out in the presence and with the participation at the same time and place of all the members of each couple.
“Each swinger couple decides how far the relationship leads or not, always by mutual agreement between the two and the third parties involved, with the utmost respect for the limits previously established between those who participate in that sexual encounter,” says the therapist portal Mundo Psicólogos .
In the case of polyamory, affective ties exist, unlike other open relationships. It’s a ethical, loving and caring commitment with several couples at the same time with the knowledge of all the parties involved, indicates the sexologist Karla Barrios of the Mandala foundation.
“It is not a question of taking advantage of other people to gain advantage, it is not carelessness, it is not a partner exchange, it is not an orgy, it is not a lie or concealment, it is not a power game where one can and the other cannot. Polyamory has to do with care, love, ethics, with protecting everyone, not cheating, making agreements, “adds Barrios on the subject.
The polyamorous story of Eliana, Nazareno and Maira
Maira Fernández, Eliana Cuchietti and Nazareno Fernández are Argentines, they have lived together for four years and have a polyamorous relationship, a paradigm shift in normative affective relationships; that is to say, heterosexual and monogamous.
Currently, this trio from Mendoza celebrates love in a very special way, breaking down stereotypes and encouraging themselves to love: “We have a polyamorous relationship and three. We do not maintain an open relationship, we are not swingers. We are a trio and we love each other ”.
Now they work in an electronics store. After living together since June 2020, they are about to make a symbolic commitment and are also evaluating the possibility of having children.