Unable to be silent, I went straight to her house and asked her to take down the post, forcing her to apologize to her mother.
As sisters-in-law, but Thu and I are not compatible. She is hot-tempered and grumpy, and I like to be gentle and calm. Right from the moment my brother brought her home, my family did not agree. She is far away, although sharp but newly loved, she has kept all her boyfriend’s salary. My family mightn’t stop it, so I had to let you guys come together.
From the very beginning, my mother determined that she might not live with her daughter-in-law, so she let you rent out a house with 50 million, when you have money, you can buy a house later. Not living together, so few collisions, but sometimes Thu and her mother, even me, are still angry and upset with each other. Her personality is straight, hearing that her husband’s family criticizes her is the same as that she went straight to my mother and me, and then left following talking for a while.
There is such an unskillful wife, but my brother still loves his wife and listens to his wife. His housework is free to do, relax and take his wife out and never lack holiday gifts. With her husband’s family, she is normal, but her grandmother’s family comes and plays constantly. Until I had a baby, I mightn’t come back when I was busy.
After giving birth to her first child, she quit her job at the company to take care of her children and run an online business. Her personality is so hot, but she has a charm to sell many customers, so the salary of the husband and wife is also good. It’s close to home, but she rarely goes to her parents-in-law’s house to play, it’s okay if there’s anything new. You must not be comfortable here.
When the child was 4 years old, she gave birth to a second child. This time, she said frankly that she did not need her grandparents to take care of her, she and her husband managed it on their own. My mother was anxious to take care of her, but she was determined not to let her stay with her. After a while, her mother chased her back. Many times my mother is sad when she comes home.
She did not allow her grandmother to take care of her grandchildren, help her daughter-in-law during childbirth, but Ms. Thu went online to complain that she was alone all day taking care of her children, and no one might help. Many times, she was angry and irritated because she was tired, her husband only helped her when she got home from work. Everyone asks where her mother-in-law is without holding her grandchildren and helping her daughter-in-law. I read it, just liked it, but didn’t respond at all.
Reading the comments on your sister’s post made me angry. She said that was like blaming her mother-in-law. Unable to be silent, I went straight to her house and asked her to take down the post, forcing her to apologize to her mother. I blamed her when her mother begged to stay to take care of her grandchildren and help her daughter-in-law, she kept urging her to return. Obviously, she refused help from her husband’s family, bringing suffering to those who still complained.
Listening to me vent my anger for a while, she sighed and confided: “I will take that post down. But she didn’t know how to give birth to the first child, her mother came to stay for 6 months and she almost became depressed when her mother kept criticizing and forcing her to raise the child according to her mother’s wishes. This second child, she took care of herself because she did not want to fall into it. You can think of me as evil or unfilial. It’s up to you!”.
She chased me back and slammed the door, I sighed and felt both pity and anger at her. Every mother-in-law wants the best for her grandchildren, but the two generations are different in how to raise children. I don’t know if my mother treated her like that before, but to be honest, my mother didn’t like her so she mightn’t avoid her words.
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According to VietNamNet
