Urgent: Is Your Spiritual Advisor Crossing the Line? Concerns Rise Over Invasive Pastoral Care
BASEL, SWITZERLAND – A new interview with theologian Elis Eichener is sparking critical conversation about the potential for abuse within pastoral care settings. The discussion, originating from the German-language “pfarrblatt,” highlights a disturbing truth: the very act of offering support and guidance can, unintentionally or otherwise, become a form of control and harm. This breaking news comes as the Diocese of Basel announces a new reporting point and protection concept for spiritual abuse, signaling a growing awareness of the issue within religious institutions.
The Shepherd and the Sheep: A Biblical Metaphor Turned Toxic?
Eichener, a research assistant at Ruhr University Bochum specializing in queer theology and power dynamics in the church, explains that the inherent power imbalance in pastoral relationships is the core of the problem. Drawing on the biblical image of the Good Shepherd, he argues that while the intention is often benevolent – to guide and protect – the metaphor can easily be twisted. “The shepherd image is primal biblical,” Eichener states, “but it also contains abysses.” He references the work of Michel Foucault, who pointed out how the shepherd can become a “stalker in the herd,” excessively monitoring and controlling individuals.
Beyond Well-Intentioned Guidance: When Care Becomes Control
The interview reveals that this isn’t simply a theoretical concern. Eichener specifically points to the experiences of LGBTQ+ individuals within Protestant churches, where attempts to “help” them conform to heteronormative expectations have been deeply damaging. These attempts often involve intrusive questioning about personal lives and a pressure to change, all framed as acts of care. “Care and power do not contradict each other; rather, they go hand in hand,” Eichener emphasizes. “Christian exercise of power is often genuinely concerned about people… But care can result in a kind of regulation that restricts people’s freedom.”
Unintentional Harm: The Role of Unconscious Power Dynamics
A crucial point raised is that abuse isn’t always malicious. Pastors, often genuinely wanting to help, may be unaware of the power they wield and the impact of their actions. Eichener stresses the importance of self-awareness: “Pastors often shy away from viewing their own actions as powerful because they don’t actually want to.” Recognizing this inherent power dynamic is the first step towards preventing harm.
Protecting Boundaries: Practical Steps for Pastors and Seekers
So, what can be done? Eichener offers concrete advice for pastors: consistently ask themselves, “Do I respect the boundaries of the other person?” This includes limiting the duration of conversations, ensuring individuals feel empowered to end the discussion, and resisting the urge to delve into overly personal details. For those seeking spiritual guidance, it’s vital to be aware of these potential dynamics and to trust your instincts. If a conversation feels intrusive or controlling, it’s okay – and necessary – to set boundaries or seek support elsewhere.
A Universal Vulnerability: Abuse Across Denominations
While the Diocese of Basel’s new reporting system is a positive step, Eichener cautions that the risk of spiritual abuse isn’t limited to any one denomination. He believes every religion is vulnerable, though the manifestations may differ. The Catholic Church, with its more hierarchical structure and emphasis on obedience, may present specific challenges, but the underlying issue of power imbalance exists everywhere.
The conversation sparked by Eichener’s interview is a vital one, urging a critical examination of power dynamics within religious communities and a commitment to creating truly safe and supportive spaces for all. As awareness grows and reporting mechanisms are established, the hope is to foster a culture of accountability and prevent the insidious harm of spiritual abuse. For more information on reporting spiritual abuse within the Diocese of Basel, and for resources on recognizing and addressing abusive dynamics, visit the Diocese of Basel’s website. Stay informed with Archyde for ongoing coverage of this important issue and other breaking news stories.
