Veteran actress Iris Berben has offered a rare glimpse into her nearly two-decade-long relationship with partner Heiko Kiesow, revealing her self-awareness about the challenges she presents as a partner. In a recent appearance on the “NDR Talk Show,” the 75-year-ancient actress candidly discussed her personality and how it impacts her relationship, offering a refreshingly honest perspective on long-term love and partnership. This openness comes as Berben prepares to appear in the upcoming film “Ein fast perfekter Antrag,” set to release on February 26th, alongside Heiner Lauterbach.
Berben, known for her prominent career in German film and television, admitted to being a demanding personality. “I believe I am very stressful,” she confessed, describing herself as “extremely impatient, extremely fast, and very emotional.” This self-assessment highlights a willingness to acknowledge the aspects of her character that require understanding and patience from her partner. The longevity of her relationship with Kiesow, a stuntman, suggests a strong foundation built on acceptance and mutual respect.
The actress acknowledged the difficulties her fast-paced lifestyle and public persona create for Kiesow. “I know that sometimes the speed of another person is not the speed that one has oneself. I believe others endure more there,” Berben explained. She further elaborated on the challenges of being with someone constantly in the public eye, stating, “Living with someone who leads a life like mine, where there is also a lot of public attention, is a step for someone who is not in the public eye. You have to endure a lot.” She cited instances where she receives enthusiastic greetings and embraces in public while her partner is overlooked as particularly frustrating, calling it “an absurdity.”
Despite these challenges, Berben praised Kiesow’s ability to navigate these situations with grace and composure. The couple first met in 2007 during the filming of the three-part drama “Afrika, mon amour,” as reported by Joyn. Their connection blossomed from there, leading to a relationship that has now spanned 19 years. Interestingly, despite the length of their partnership, Berben has never felt the require to marry, having previously turned down multiple proposals.
However, Berben expressed a positive view on long-term relationships in general, emphasizing the importance of growth and adaptation over time. “It is part of life to change over the years and to perceive things differently,” she stated. “The great happiness is when both partners change and approach each other in a new way.” This sentiment suggests a belief in the dynamic nature of love and the continuous effort required to maintain a fulfilling partnership.
Berben’s comments offer a rare and intimate look into a relationship that has largely remained private. Her willingness to openly discuss her own flaws and the challenges her lifestyle presents demonstrates a level of self-awareness and honesty that is often absent in public discussions about celebrity relationships. The actress’s perspective highlights the importance of understanding, patience, and mutual adaptation in navigating the complexities of long-term love, particularly when one partner lives a life in the public spotlight.
The actress also reflected on having experienced love multiple times in her life, stating, “I have had two great loves in my life,” as noted by 1und1. Prior to her relationship with Kiesow, she was in a long-term relationship with Gabriel Lewy.
As Iris Berben continues her successful career and navigates her personal life with Heiko Kiesow, her openness about the realities of their relationship provides a relatable and inspiring message about the enduring power of love and the importance of self-awareness in building a lasting partnership. The release of “Ein fast perfekter Antrag” will undoubtedly bring renewed attention to the actress, but her recent comments suggest a continued focus on the values that have sustained her relationship for nearly two decades.
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