Content warning: This article contains discussion around suicide and mental health.
Breaking: United teen defender opens up on loss, mental health and life beyond the pitch
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Rhys Bennett, 22, arrived at Manchester United’s Carrington training base with the trademark energy of a young pro, even as he nurses a knee injury ahead of a potential League one loan move next month.
The defender, who captained United to FA Youth Cup glory in 2022, is navigating a setback on the field while choosing to spotlight a cause off it: the struggles of those left behind after a loved one dies by suicide and the importance of talking openly about mental health.
He spoke candidly about a heartbreaking message he posted on October 28, directed to his father, David Bennett, who died by suicide: “Broken, devastated, just don’t want to believe it’s real. I love you in this life and the next.”
Bennett’s aim is clear. He wants to stimulate conversation, encourage intervention, and urge those facing mental-health battles to choose a different path. He notes that his sister, Megan, works in mental health care, underscoring the family’s ongoing commitment to support and resilience.
David Bennett’s memory, described by his family as hard-working and supportive, remains a touchstone for Rhys. He says his father gave him much-resilience, work ethic, and the backing of a family that believed in his dream, no matter the obstacles. The defender adds that the family’s involvement in his life helped him stay grateful for the opportunities he’s had.
In a message to BBC Sport, Bennett stressed that gratitude for life and the ability to live each day should be celebrated. “If I could have one more conversation with him, I would tell him how grateful I am for him and how much I love him. You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone,” he said.
His broader message is simple: talk openly about feelings, check in on peopel, and acknowledge what it means to be alive. “Tell people how you feel, be grateful for what you have,” Bennett urged. “If someone seems unwell, don’t hesitate-ask: are you OK?”
Context and impact
Despite a knee injury, Bennett continues to push for personal and professional growth.His immediate goal is to secure a temporary move to a League One club to continue his progress.
beyond his own recovery,the interview shines a light on the wider responsibility within sport to support mental health,a conversation Bennett says club teammates,staff,and fans alike should actively nurture.
Key facts
| Fact | Details |
|---|---|
| Name | Rhys Bennett |
| Age | 22 |
| Club | manchester United (Carrington) – Defender |
| Injury | Knee injury; recovering |
| Loan status | Set to join a League One club on loan next month |
| Family | Father David Bennett (deceased by suicide); sister Megan (works in mental health care) |
| Captaincy | led United’s 2022 FA Youth Cup-winning team |
As Bennett’s story circulates, it reinforces a timeless takeaway: sports figures can drive essential, lasting change beyond the scoreboard. His message invites supporters to listen more,reach out sooner,and cultivate a culture where asking for help is a sign of strength,not weakness.
Question 1: What steps should football clubs take to bolster player mental health support?
Question 2: How can fans help foster a culture of openness around mental health in sport?
Share your thoughts in the comments and help keep this vital conversation going.
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