The Hulu series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives has offered viewers a glimpse into the complexities of plural marriage and for Mikayla Matthews and Jace Terry, that journey has been particularly public. From a young start to welcoming four children, their relationship has faced scrutiny and, a recent separation. As the couple navigates this new chapter, a look back at their timeline reveals the evolution of their bond and the challenges they’ve encountered.
When The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives debuted in September 2024, Mikayla and Jace were among the Utah-based content creators—often referred to as “MomTok”—sharing their lives with audiences. Their story quickly drew attention, particularly due to the age gap when they first met. The couple’s journey, documented on the show, has now reached a turning point with their decision to separate, citing ongoing intimacy issues and Mikayla’s struggles with past trauma and chronic health concerns.
Early Beginnings and Family Growth
Mikayla and Jace’s relationship began in 2017, after Mikayla left home at 15 years old. She became pregnant at 16, while Jace was 21. Mikayla shared on TikTok in 2021 that she discovered she was pregnant “after less than a month of knowing” Jace, stating, “I decided to keep the baby, told him and he was 110 percent supportive and we went from there.”
The couple solidified their commitment in 2018, marrying one year after welcoming their first child, Beckham. Their family continued to grow with the arrival of Haven in 2019 and Tommie in 2021. By 2024, Mikayla and Jace were featured prominently on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, offering viewers an intimate look into their lives.
Navigating Reality TV and Personal Challenges
The exposure from the Hulu series brought both opportunities and challenges. Mikayla claimed via Instagram that Jace was fired from his job as a project manager for Waffle Love after the show aired, though LinkedIn records confirm his employment there until August 2024. Jace later became more involved in content creation, joining “DadTok.”
In February 2025, Mikayla and Jace announced they were expecting their fourth child, and their daughter, Lottie, arrived later that year. However, beneath the surface of their growing family, issues began to emerge. Season 3 of Mormon Wives addressed intimacy problems stemming from Mikayla’s past sexual trauma, and these challenges continued into Season 4, which premiered in March 2026.
Separation and Looking Ahead
The culmination of these struggles led to Mikayla moving out of their shared home. During a confessional in the ninth episode of Season 4, Mikayla explained, “We both agreed to do a separation.” She emphasized that the separation wasn’t intended to be permanent, stating, “I don’t think it’s with the intention of being separated forever.”
Mikayla recently discussed the situation with Us Weekly, acknowledging the difficulties they face. “I think it’s tricky in this environment, because I also necessitate a lot of support from him going through all of it,” she said. “And so it’s kind of one of those things that we’re still navigating, and it still has its ups and still has its downs.” She also spoke about her ongoing health issues, stating, “Unfortunately for me, it’s like I’m stuck in this place where my health is out of my control.”
Jace, for his part, expressed a desire for Mikayla to commit to trauma therapy, saying, “For me, it seems like the solution to that would be to commit to trauma therapy until you’re at a point where it doesn’t make your nervous system freak out.” Mikayla has acknowledged her past trauma, and the couple is attempting to navigate a path forward.
As of March 13, 2026, Mikayla has acknowledged her “downfall” in a playful TikTok, according to Page Six, seemingly addressing online commentary surrounding their separation. She posted a video stating, “I’m already down. The horse is already down. You don’t have to beat me. I’m down.”
The future of Mikayla and Jace’s relationship remains uncertain, but they both have expressed a willingness to continue communication and co-parenting their four children. As they continue filming The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, viewers will likely gain further insight into their journey and the challenges they face. What comes next for this couple will undoubtedly unfold on screen, offering a continued look into the complexities of modern relationships and the pressures of public life.
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