One year after the death of beloved Dutch singer Rob de Nijs, his widow, Jet de Nijs, is publicly sharing her continued grief and remembrance. On March 16, 2026, the anniversary of his passing, Jet de Nijs took to Instagram to express the enduring pain of loss, revealing that she still finds herself falling asleep in tears.
The singer’s passing has left a profound void in Jet’s life, a sentiment she articulated in a heartfelt post. She described how, initially, she marked the time in hours, then days, and weeks, but that the relentless counting eventually subsided as the seasons changed. However, the passage of time has not diminished the intensity of her sorrow. “365 days you are no longer with us,” she wrote, acknowledging the stark reality of his absence.
Jet de Nijs’s Instagram post, featuring a photograph of her and Rob’s hands intertwined, resonated with many of her followers. She reflected on the way life continues – the sun still rises each morning, the dogs still bark – but the essential presence of her husband is irrevocably gone. “That doesn’t go away, it doesn’t fade, and it doesn’t get easier. It doesn’t become softer or less,” she shared openly. She specifically mentioned missing his “strong hands that carried so much,” hands that offered comfort and reassurance.
This period of mourning has been particularly difficult, with Jet admitting to still experiencing moments of intense sadness. According to RTL Boulevard, she often finds herself “falling asleep crying.” Despite the pain, Jet emphasized the enduring power of the love they shared, a love that transcends even death. She expressed confidence that Rob would be proud of her resilience and the path her son, Julius, is forging.
Jet de Nijs’s journey through grief has been a public one, and she previously spoke about a low point in her life, finding a turning point through participation in the show “No Way Back VIPS.” Shownieuws.nl reported on her emotional state, highlighting the depth of her continued sorrow.
The outpouring of support for Jet de Nijs has been significant, with numerous comments expressing sympathy and offering strength. Weekend Online noted the many messages of support received on her Instagram post, with followers sending hearts and words of encouragement.
While the first year without Rob de Nijs has been marked by profound sadness, Jet de Nijs’s message is ultimately one of hope and enduring love. She believes Rob is watching over them, proud of the life they built and the future they are creating. She concluded her post with a simple, heartfelt message: “I love you.”
As Jet de Nijs continues to navigate life without her husband, her openness about her grief serves as a poignant reminder of the enduring power of love and the long, complex process of healing. The coming months will undoubtedly bring continued challenges, but also opportunities to honor Rob de Nijs’s legacy and uncover strength in the memories they shared.
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