Halle Berry is opening up about her approach to intimacy, candidly discussing why she’s moved away from faking orgasms in the bedroom. The Oscar-winning actress shared her perspective on prioritizing mutual pleasure and honest communication in relationships, a conversation gaining traction as discussions around sexual wellness and female desire grow more prevalent. This shift, she explains, is about reclaiming agency and ensuring both partners experience genuine satisfaction.
Berry’s comments, made during a preview of her upcoming appearance on the “Sex With Emily” podcast, highlight a growing movement towards prioritizing authentic sexual experiences. The conversation around sexual satisfaction is evolving, with more emphasis placed on open communication and the dismantling of societal pressures that historically prioritized male pleasure. Berry’s willingness to discuss this topic publicly is resonating with many, sparking conversations about healthy sexual dynamics and the importance of self-awareness.
“We had to obtain there so that he felt good about bringing us to orgasm,” Berry told podcast host Emily Morse. “So we had to say that we did it so that he would feel good about himself. Because what is that doing? That’s putting his needs before our own. And now I don’t do that anymore.” She continued, articulating a desire for reciprocity, stating, “I’m like, ‘No, I cum first like you cum first to you.’ We both deserve to have this be a mutually enjoyable experience where we both can roll over and proceed to sleep because we feel good. Not one snoring and one looking… [like], ‘What the f**k am I doing?’”
Beyond her views on sexual authenticity, Berry also confirmed her engagement to musician Van Hunt. The actress revealed the moment she realized Hunt was the one, stating, “You know, you get to be 54, you just kind of done it a few times, three, to be exact,” she said. “You just kind of know when it’s right, ’cause you know when it’s wrong.” This confirmation follows previous reports and speculation surrounding their relationship.
Berry addressed some earlier confusion regarding the engagement during an appearance on “The Tonight Demonstrate with Jimmy Fallon.” She clarified that she had not turned down a proposal, explaining, “There’s some confusion that he asked to marry me, and I said no.’ But, that’s not the case? No, that’s not the case,” she explained. “I did not say ‘no,’ we just don’t have a date. Of course, I said ‘yes, I would marry him.’”
The actress’s openness about her personal life extends beyond her romantic relationship. In 2024, Berry spoke to Marie Claire about her connection with Hunt, describing it as the first time she had fallen in love before engaging in sexual activity, calling the experience “magical.” She also reflected on past relationships, noting that Hunt is “the person I should have married.” E! Online reports that Berry feels she has “zero f—ks” to give in this new chapter of her life.
Berry’s candid discussion on the “Sex With Emily” podcast, premiering February 24, 2026, is part of a larger conversation about female sexual empowerment and the importance of prioritizing personal pleasure. Sex With Emily regularly features discussions on a wide range of topics related to sexual health and relationships, including orgasms, sexting, and compatibility. The podcast aims to provide a platform for open and honest conversations about sex, free from shame, and judgment.
As Berry prepares for her wedding, her willingness to speak openly about her desires and expectations sets a powerful example. Her comments are likely to continue fueling discussions about healthy relationships and the importance of mutual satisfaction. The full episode of “Sex With Emily” featuring Halle Berry is expected to provide further insights into her perspective on intimacy and self-discovery.
What comes next for Berry includes navigating wedding planning and continuing to advocate for authentic self-expression. Her openness about her personal life and her commitment to prioritizing her own needs are likely to resonate with audiences for years to come.
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