Close Friend Gus Miftah, Deddy Corbuzier Chooses Private Conversation Over Online Critique
Deddy Corbuzier, a well-known mentalist, found himself in the spotlight after his close friend Gus Miftah sparked controversy for making light of a viral iced tea vendor on social media. Netizens quickly called on Deddy to offer his perspective on the incident.
The bond between Deddy and Gus Miftah is widely recognized. Gus Miftah played a pivotal role in Deddy’s journey, guiding him through his conversion to Islam.
Instead of publicly addressing the situation, Deddy opted for a more discreet approach. He took to his Instagram account to express his preference for resolving disputes privately.
“If a friend makes a mistake, where’s the best place to confront them? Is it on social media? Should you make a video expressing your anger about their mistake when you have their phone number and can call them directly?” Deddy questioned in a post on Friday (6/12).
He emphasized that he prefers to handle disagreements with friends through personal conversations.
“I’m not that kind of person. If my friend makes a mistake, I will call him. Not for my own sake,” he added, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in close relationships.
In contrast to Deddy’s chosen method, Gus Miftah had already issued a public apology to the iced tea seller. He even went the extra mile by personally visiting the vendor at his residence to express his remorse.
 Gus Miftah and Deddy Corbuzier/ Photo: Youtube/Deddy Corbuzier |
This incident highlights the different ways people choose to lend support to friends when they face public criticism. While Deddy Corbuzier believes in resolving conflicts privately, Gus Miftah opted for a more public approach to offer his apologies and show remorse.
Would you agree that Deddy Corbuzier’s approach sends a positive message about conflict resolution to the public?
## Close Friend Gus Miftah, Deddy Corbuzier Chooses Private Conversation Over Online Critique
**Interviewer:** Welcome to the show. Deddy Corbuzier has found himself in a difficult position recently after his close friend, Gus Miftah, made controversial comments about a viral iced tea vendor online. Many felt Deddy, given his own platform, should have publicly called out Gus Miftah’s remarks. Can you shed some light on Deddy’s decision to handle this situation privately?
**Alex Reed:** Absolutely. It’s important to understand the depth of the relationship between Deddy and Gus Miftah. Gus Miftah played a significant role in Deddy’s conversion to Islam, acting as a mentor and guide. Their bond goes far beyond casual friendship. [[1](https://www.suara.com/entertainment/2024/12/04/142747/terungkap-alasan-deddy-corbuzier-tak-tegur-gus-miftah-secara-terbuka-usai-olok-olok-penjual-es)]
Given this, it’s understandable why Deddy chose to address the issue privately. Public condemnation might have come across as performative or insincere, damaging their personal relationship. Opting for a one-on-one conversation allows for genuine dialog and the opportunity to express his concerns directly and respectfully.
**Interviewer:** Some might argue that remaining silent condoned Gus Miftah’s actions. How would you respond to that?
**Alex Reed:** I understand that perspective. However, silence doesn’t necessarily equate to agreement. Deddy likely felt a private conversation would be more effective in prompting reflection and potentially change in Gus Miftah’s behavior. It shows that he values their friendship and wants to address the issue in a way that preserves that bond.
**Interviewer:** What message do you think Deddy’s approach sends, not just to Gus Miftah, but to the wider public?
**Alex Reed:** I believe it underscores the importance of nuanced responses to complex situations. Sometimes, a private conversation can be more powerful than a public condemnation. It emphasizes the potential for dialog and understanding, even when dealing with sensitive issues.
**Interviewer:** Thank you for your insightful analysis. It certainly gives us a different perspective on Deddy’s decision.
