Challenges of Growing Up with Divorced Parents: Finding Family and Dealing with Difficult Relationships

2023-07-22 07:20:00

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“I don’t know if my patience will run out someday.” A female netizen revealed that her parents divorced since she was a child, her father kept changing girlfriends, and her mother remarried. She took turns living with relatives like a ball.

The original PO posted on the Facebook group “Anonymous Commune”, “My parents divorced since childhood, my father has been changing girlfriends, and my mother has also remarried. I took turns living with relatives like a ball, until I officially settled in my aunt’s house. My aunt and uncle treated me very well. For me, I finally feel like a family. Only my cousin, who is two years younger, seems to be unhappy. Our relationship is not very good. Maybe she feels that my parents’ love has been shared with me. She has done too much to me in recent years.”

A female netizen said, “It’s been three years since I graduated, and my salary is not too much after I started working in the society. In order to repay my aunt and the others for their kindness in nurturing me, I remitted 6,000 a month to them. I don’t know much. My ability is still limited, and I also hope to have better rewards for them in the future. My nightmare came a few months ago. My cousin who graduated from university last year couldn’t find a good job in her hometown. My aunt asked me to take care of her, and I reluctantly agreed.”

The original PO mentioned that the two of them are now squeezed together in a small suite, “My bed is so small that I had to make a floor bunk, and she was allowed to sleep on the bed. Unexpectedly, my cousin never wanted to find a job and move out. When I was working, she turned on the air conditioner at home all day. I had to buy food for her when I got home, and I pretended not to give her money. She said I was a child that no one wanted, and his parents were willing to take me in. I still treated her like this.

After the post was exposed, netizens commented, “Don’t compromise on this matter! Auntie and uncle are kind to you, but it doesn’t mean that other people have to compromise when they treat you badly.”

(Picture / Taken from Anonymous Commune)
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