2023-08-31 09:25:00
Sacred sexuality, what are we talking about?
“Sacred sexuality is first of all to see sexuality as a wonderful portal to more love” explains David Blin, accompanying in tantra and tantrika.
Sacred love, another notion of sacred sexuality?
“To speak of ‘sacred sexuality’, one must independently speak of ‘sacred love’ given that all that is sacred is love, a universal love adds David Blin, also magnetizer and teacher in the subject. “The sacred is also the amount of love that we put into an action, the preciousness of the act.”
Sacred sexuality, is it the same as tantra?
If sacred sexuality is very close to tantrism, sometimes even synonymous, there would also be no need to be a follower of tantra to indulge in it. “It is of course possible to experience this sacred dimension without being an experienced tantrika, but only by being benevolent, by adopting a certain form of respect for oneself and one’s partner, but also by accepting to reveal one’s vulnerability. to the other.”
In short: it is the degree of presence which would lead to the sacred. Which could also explain why, at the beginning of a relationship, everything is wonderful and that it can evolve negatively when you start to get less involved in it and get used to the other while losing this side ” wonder” from the beginning.
What does sacred sexuality allow at the individual and couple level?
“It is important to qualify for both since the attention to the other passes first by the attention to oneself” indicates David Blin, teacher in tantra. At the individual level, the person can for example start by (re)discovering themselves: “Touching oneself does not necessarily refer to the ‘sexual’ meaning, it can for example be in the way of passing the soap in the shower. ” Do we do it in a way mechanism while thinking of something else or do we really do it for the pleasure of being present at this act? This presence to oneself will make it possible to increase one’s presence to others while exploring within the couple,other sensations by awakening the senses in particular (smell, sight, touch, etc.)
How to live the sacred experience when you have been in a relationship for several years (ritual, breathing exercises, spiritual path…)?
As mentioned above, the couple relationship evolves differently depending on the individual and the side “wonder of the beginning” will fade in many cases. However, there is no question of putting your “couple” problems on the back of “the passing years” because as the late writer, Christiane Singer said: “The important thing is to consider the ‘other as a gift and not as a due’. Tantrism practitioner David Blin is also convinced:
We should never ask for anything from the person we love, even if we’ve been together for 20 years. David Blin, accompanying in tantra.
Getting out of habits, returning to one’s feelings, experimenting with small daily gestures as if it were the first time are all ways to reach the sacred. “Sacred sexuality truly begins with sitting down, looking the other in the eye with all the attention in the world, touching him/her with infinite tenderness and love. And once our hand touches our partner, experience the greatest tenderness possible” adds David Blin, tantrika.
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