2023-04-28 10:10:17
Definition: what does this sexual practice consist of?
Dry humping is a sexual practice known as “non-penetrative” which consists of rubbing his genitals against his or her partner or against any object (duvet, cushion, duffel, table corner, etc.) in order to increase the excitement. This technique is performed fully clothed and generates no bodily fluid.
Dry humping: an anglicism to understand
Humping comes from the English verb “hump” which in vulgar slang means “kiss” (source 1) and from the word “dry”: sec. Without equivalent in French, the expression “dry humping” can however be translated as “friction à sec”.
Dry humping: instructions for use
The principle is simple : rub his genitals against an everyday object or a consenting person and while remaining fully or partially clothed. “I recommend wearing clothes with a soft and smooth texture to avoid possible irritation during friction with the genitals and the inner thighs”, specifies Corine Rodrigue. Pajamas in “pilou pilou”, cotton shorts or even satin panties… it’s up to you.
Dry humping: as a couple or solo?
In the same way as masturbation, dry humping can be experienced alone or in pairs.
How to optimize the “smear-smear”?
Movements of the pelvis more or less fastfrom bottom to top or in a circular form, by varying the rhythm or by changing the pressure, can modulate the degree of excitation.
As for the “accessory” on which to rub her genitals, the sex therapist retorts: “To each person his inspiration: pillow, cushion, stool… but with awareness. Because if practicing on a corner of the table can be interesting in terms of sensations, its angular side can also be dangerous.
What position to adopt?
“You can give free rein to your imagination (standing, sitting, at an angle, etc.) provided you always respect your feelings and stay on the lookout for your limits. If the posture becomes awkward or hurts, we change or we stop completely”, insists the sex therapist.
Advantages: why indulge in it?
“It’s a very effective sexual practice when you don’t want do penetrative sex and that we want to protect ourselves from STIs (sexually transmitted infections) and/or not to get pregnant”, explains the sex therapist.
Dry humping also allows you to discover yourself and find out what you like: “It’s a sexual practice in its own right. It allows you to explore your sexuality. Some will even be able to reach orgasm, especially people with a clitoris, even if it is not an end in itself,” continues Corine Rodrigue.
Finally, as these frictions are practiced while fully clothed, this opens up a multitude of places to get started: elevators, parks… In case of prying eyes, all you have to do is take a break as if nothing had happened!
What are the risks of dry humping?
Performed improperly, dry humping can in some cases (but this is rare) cause irritation or burns to the genitals. Remember that these are extremely sensitive because of the nerve endings found there, no less than 10,000 at the level of the clitoris (source 2).
Australian doctors have also reported the case of a patient in his thirties who ended up with a huge abscess on his penis after having performed a session a little hard (source 3). As you will have understood, in the event of abnormal reactions, it will therefore be strongly advised to quickly take medical advice.
Parents: how to react if you surprise your child in the middle of dry humping?
“First apologize for interrupting your child, then close the door behind you very quietly and leave. A little later, we can ask him to discuss it to exchange with him/her: specify that there is nothing shameful in masturbating, ask if he/she has questions about sexuality or masturbation » , explains Corine Rodrigue.
Open dialogue without judgment
If your child asks a question you can’t answer, thank them for asking the question and tell them you’ll find out. And the sexologist to specify: “The goal is that your child feels good to approach the subject of sexuality with you rather than to take his information on the net!. »
Many specialized works can also help to approach this theme without taboo. “I strongly recommend the book Body, Love, Sexuality: the 100 questions your children will ask you of Charlie Vermont. (source 4).
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