2023-04-21 17:46:00
Un-Kham Phaka asked about the Gigi case, why guns are easy to access? Bie gave up on having a cool attitude, good people don’t do it before amending the law on guns. must help create a culture that does not honor people who carry weapons
At 7:00 p.m. on April 21, 2023, Khaosod Online hosted the program. “News is over, people are not over” Moderated by An Phuwanat Kunphlin and Khaek Lakkhana Panwichai or word Phaka on the topic “Ending with life again General’s son commits violence It reflects the idea of a man-dominated man.”
buxom Said the big problem that arose was the gun that belonged to his father. Men often post pictures with weapons as deadly weapons of war. Including the gun that caused the crime He suspected that this gun belonged to his father. But initially, now news has come out that the father is not wrong. because father doesn’t know If you answer that you don’t know Isn’t that wrong?
Phaka word Said we will not be quick to judge who is wrong or right. Because some child care matters are sensitive. But what can be said is that violence in relationships is toxic. Why is it that people can’t easily walk away from that relationship? Like this story, young ladies are complicated by themselves. because he is famous She’s an internet idol. And he was just 20 years old.
Phaka word Said that he used to know people who were well educated. Family background is very good, wealthy, not weak in economic power relations. There is everything ready, has 3-4 children, has a prominent face in society. The size of this perfect woman Than to get out of a toxic relationship physically abused by husband It still takes until the age of 50, but in the end it can be released.
Phaka word Said that when there is violence against each other between lovers, couples, husbands and wives, or even couples, women-women or men-men, which are in all genders in violence against each other, item 1, why can’t walk out? Easily come from that violence. What factors are there if we expect that in society there must be a mechanism that is a social worker? have a psychologist There is a mechanism that is a safety net that is not just a family. What safety net can society create for these people?
Phaka word He continued that when talking about violence within the family People will only focus on women being abused by men. It is often forgotten that many men are affected by violence against women. And that violence sometimes is not the use of force, beating, but insulting through words, emotional blackmail.
Phaka word In other words, when we say the word “majority” It’s not just that simple. Men are always in a superior position than women. Masculinity is a state in which society establishes a role for men. and one role for women
khamphaka He continued, assuming that society established a role for men to be the head of the family. must be strong Must be a person to earn money to support the family. Just this cannot show weakness in front of children and wives. If a man is with a toxic or abusive woman Women can use these things to blackmail men every day. and make men feel worthless Better go kill yourself When this complicated He didn’t want to speak. Let’s continue to listen to social trends. and see if there are any points where people comment that it is very unusual Then we slowly poke at that point.
buxom Said the point we need to talk about is guns. possession of weapons or easy and irresponsible access to weapons. In Thai society it is very scary. When in the hands of people who are not in maturity, ready with maturity and also at an age where even parents admit that they have a lot of problems in talking to their children Unable to control behavior or talk to this child and already saw that the child had access to the weapon because the child posts all the time already seen that there is a high risk But naturally, one might think that you wouldn’t go as far as killing people.
buxom Said that But on the other side, there are people who ask if the child is this size, why not treat it? One admits that he needs therapy and going forward with therapy voluntarily is very difficult. Especially these people are family members. Sometimes we can’t talk.
buxom He said some people told him to tie him up and send him to therapy. If you are a child, you may lose your father, your mother, your siblings, or even be cut off from each other. If using that method This matter is very delicate. He understands that there is such diversity in the kinship family. Many times we see a problem. and choose to take yourself out of that cycle But the problem was not solved. We just take ourselves out of the risky point. But at the risk point, there are many more people who can’t walk out without leaving responsibility or leaving that burden on them.
buxom Said that in this case, his parents will come out quite admitting that they were wrong. but has not come out to face clearly But what I do know is that the parents of both parties have already talked and apologized to each other and there will be negotiations on how to take responsibility. but probably not worth it The family of Nong Gigi also came out to ask if the real owner of the gun. Are you not responsible for what happened? A person who will possess a dangerous firearm should have more responsibility than usual If there is not enough responsibility Shouldn’t it be given the right of possession?
Phaka word Said if you had a gun in the house Should it be kept in a safe?
buxom added that He said he didn’t know it was stolen. I don’t know if the child picked it up.
Phaka word continued saying I don’t know one thing But before not knowing that it was picked up It should be kept in a safe place. It’s like keeping dangerous drugs out of reach of children. Let’s say you have a very toxic drug. And then you drugged carelessly. Your child doesn’t think that candy, pops it in his mouth, and then dies. You say you don’t know when your child took it. It doesn’t. It has to be careful that we have dangerous things in the house. It should be in a hard-to-reach place, not just in a safe at home. Should be deposited in a place that is not even in the house.
Phaka word Continue to say what kind of society instills that everyone in the house should walk around and pick up a gun to use at all times. He saw that it was easy to access. But on the one hand, there must be something very wrong. In our popular society, people with guns Until it became popular that We will be respected. for him to be popular with people who wear expensive watches Owning a yacht, having a nice, nice car, it’s not a problem. Suppose a guy comes to flirt with you, has a nice car, wears an expensive watch, has a yacht, scores out of 100 but has a gun. We wouldn’t like it, it shouldn’t be like that. really?
Phaka word continued saying In all this news What was bothering him was What’s wrong with Thai society? With our esteem of some qualities that should not be appreciated. If we rate who owns a weapon supreme power This is unusual in Thai society. If we go to experience various “real men” worlds, it appears that they are like this. Let’s show off the gun, which the word “true man” is now a new word. is a cursing similar to the word female face
Phaka word Said he thought this was unusual. If we think that a man with a gun is cool If society values this And made a lot of teenagers feel that having a gun is cool. Until showing off on social media It means that it is something that has been shown off and is appreciated by people.
Phaka word Said that before amending the law on guns We must come together to help create a new culture that does not honor people who carry weapons. and make this something unusual The fact that you are crazy about collecting guns It’s a bad thing. Good people don’t do it. If you’re in a rut. in a dishonest profession You don’t have to carry a weapon. Then don’t claim that for self defense
Phaka word Said that looking at the statistics, people who carry 10 guns, such as the godfather, do not see anyone taking the gun they carry to protect themselves. When hit by a gunman on the other side to attack and shoot These people were guarded by snipers all the time and still couldn’t protect themselves from being assassinated. Come on, you admit that having a gun Makes you feel that you are powerful, cool, cooler than others. as a monk more than self-defense
buxom went on to say that this story also reveals what the father used to teach the male side, attitude and world view, it seems to be an issue that should be discussed if it’s strange or not The issue of patriarchy Valuing women for chastity or use of violence It conveys what the child posted. He suspected that with this kind of attitude How could he be the class president? Why did his friends choose him to be the class president? He did not want to see that everyone was in line with this value.
buxom Said that this story would like people involved to come out and see what gun laws are. Another thing I would like is that there are people who are experts in criminology in England. He concluded that woman killed in relationship One of the things that can reduce the risk. is someone who is in a relationship and gets killed It’s often a relationship that happens seriously, but quickly. It takes a very short time for the relationship to grow, for example, dating for 2 weeks and moving in together. Until I haven’t had a chance to get to know the attitude
buxom He goes on to say that when we put someone into our lives, for example, move to my house. but can’t let it out When inviting me to stay, it’s very easy, but suddenly tells me to pack up and move out. Does the other party have to think that they love each other less? Did she have someone else? Why? At that time, she wanted to enter. Now I want to leave Before accepting someone into your life, think for a long time. Don’t rush. This is one thing that can reduce the risk. Doesn’t mean it’s not risky. But it can help reduce the risk, so don’t rush.
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