In the morning, my husband is the first to wake up. He cooks for me to take to work. On time, I just wake up, do personal hygiene and bring the rice he has prepared to the company.
Due to my freelance work, my husband is mostly at home. Therefore, he also goes to the market, cooks rice, sweeps the house, washes dishes, washes clothes…
When having children, he is also the one who makes milk, washes clothes, changes diapers for the baby. Even if I’m too tired, he’ll take care of the baby to sleep. Even so, I never heard him complain or call me lazy.
When I came to stay, seeing that my son had to do errands in the house, my mother-in-law was not happy. Many times, she showed discomfort and thought that her son was being tortured by his wife.
She even felt humiliated and miserable because she thought that because my husband was at his wife’s house, he had to suffer.
However, every time she spoke, my husband brushed it off and said: “My wife and children have a lot of work at the company, so it’s tiring. Moreover, she is allergic to dust, so she does not do housework. My work is flexible, so I should share it with my wife. Mom, don’t worry.”
Hearing that, she stopped insinuating, scolding dogs and cats. But before I could be happy, I heard the news of lightning. She gathered clothes, angrily demanded to leave her hometown. She also called me and told me bad things about my mother. She said I was lazy, everything fell on my husband. She scolded me for not knowing how to be a wife and mother and look down on her husband.
The saddest thing was that she scolded my parents. She blamed my parents for not knowing how to teach their children, relying on conditional families, in the city, so they despised and bullied her husband. She also scolded my parents for not loving their grandchildren. The proof is that my grandparents abandoned my mother and children to go home to take care of their grandchildren.
No matter how much my parents argued, she wouldn’t listen. She also threatened to force her son to divorce me so as not to be humiliated with the world.
Listening to my parents tell me, I was very sad and didn’t understand why my mother-in-law hated me and disrespected my parents so much? I don’t know where I went wrong and how to correct it?
According to VietNamNet