Hello, I need advice.
I have been with my husband for over 21 years, 13 of which have been married. We have two great children.
My husband always has a password on his phone and I am never allowed to “touch” it. From time to time he forgets to enter the password, and since it is a big taboo for him and he keeps it such a secret, I become even more suspicious and look to see what he has to hide.
This topic is always a source of controversy. I recently discovered a WhatsApp group with two former schoolmates and another friend in which they share pornographic content with each other. They are mostly women with enormous breasts about whom they write about what they would do to them. This has been going on for over 10 years. Every time I find out about this there is a huge argument and every time he promises to stop it.
Everyone in this group is married with children – children old enough to discover this content on their fathers’ cell phones. I am extremely hurt, disappointed and just feel empty.
What would you do if you were me?
