The original PO mother said that girls will live with boys if they don’t love themselves. (Schematic / pixabay)
Recently, a netizen said that she asked her mother when she was in junior high school, if she wanted to marry her other half, why didn’t she live together first, so as not to be trapped by her children in the future. My mother actually replied, “Girls don’t love themselves so they can live with others.” Now my mother is still emotionally blackmailing her, saying that she regrets having her, which made her very broken.
The original PO recently posted on the Facebook group“Explosive Commune”The article said that couples are blind when they are in love, and they seldom have a normal calmness. Is it still the person I know?” When she was in junior high school, whenever she heard that a girl was living with a boy, she would think that after the girl broke up, she would lose her job. “At that time, I asked my mother: Since I will be married for the rest of my life, Why can’t we live together, get to know each other’s habits, ideas, and backgrounds in advance, so as not to get married later, find out that it’s not suitable, suffer, and be trapped by children.”
My mother said, “Girls don’t love themselves so they can live with others. Having sex before marriage shows that girls must be messy, and they can open their thighs to anyone.” The original PO pointed out that she didn’t agree with this sentence, and even quarreled with her mother at the time , “You and your dad have never lived together, and you don’t know their family’s situation (my dad is an aboriginal, and a single parent, with many children), and all your habits after marriage are inconsistent, and you are just taking it out on me (no Hit me, but call me nasty words)”
Yuan PO lamented that if the parents lived together first and separated after finding out that they were not suitable, there would be no children as an excuse to bind them. After all, it will take 3 to 40 years. “Up to now, going to the mother’s house has become a My nightmare, every time I leave her house, I feel very sad. Your misfortune is not caused by me. Why do you tell me that you regret having me? Why do you tell me that I let you be like this for the next 30 years Unlucky? Why did you say you would have taken me out if you knew it earlier?”
After this article was exposed, netizens commented, “I really can’t agree with this point of view. From your point of view, you can try it first and you won’t have any regrets? Isn’t there more problems now? AIDS, mental illness, emotional injury, sexually transmitted diseases, it’s just the morality of modern people.” Weak sense, no better than before! It used to be responsible, modern people are more irresponsible (personal opinion)”, “If you can be independent, I believe you can decide your future partner without looking at your mother’s face, but in Before this, as long as you were still living at home, you had to accept her face”, “Not all parents have this kind of self-consciousness. If you don’t realize your own injuries, it will be difficult to avoid harming the next generation. Always be vigilant to yourself, we all Don’t be that kind of parent.”