One thing she’s noticed is that parents of successful kids show genuine interest in their children’s interests.
“Sports, video games, debates, music… Every child of the parents I spoke to had a passion outside of the classroom. Those parents never,” says Margot. Now ask their children to give up hobbies because they know it’s good for their brains.”
Dana Suskind, a professor of pediatrics at the University of Chicago Medical Center in the US, said that showing parents an interest in what their children do every day can have a huge impact on cognitive skills. , resilience and endurance of the child.
Suskind, the author of the book Parenting: Unlocking Every Child’s Potential, said that parents should pay attention to what their children love, talk to their children about what they find attractive.
Parents and children make sure that both sides are equally involved in the conversation. Parents can ask questions and encourage their children to answer freely about the issues they are interested in.
Stay positive
Roni Cohen-Sandler is a psychologist specializing in mother-daughter relationships, adolescent development, and parental guidance.
She is also the author of the book Raise emotionally resilient daughters in the digital age.
To raise resilient, smart kids, you need to teach them to have a positive outlook, says Roni. This can be difficult at first because children tend to focus on negative experiences or emotions.
“While you can sympathize with your child’s suffering, focusing their attention on their successes and joys will help them have a bigger and more positive outlook on life,” says Roni.
Psychologist Borba agrees that optimism is the key to success.
“Optimistic kids see challenges and obstacles as temporary and surmountable, so they’re more likely to succeed,” she says.
As a parent, you also need to pay more attention to your own behavior. Do you see problems in a negative or positive way? If you find yourself still thinking a lot about negativity, change your thinking and perspective so that you can educate your children more effectively.”