Old people should learn to be silent, it is best not to say the following words to make their image more prestigious.
First, if you can’t say it, don’t say it is “faithful”.
It is not difficult to see that, as parents, we must learn carefully about the thoughts and behaviors of our children, to avoid letting them say big words. As children and adolescents, it is inevitable that we will be proud and arrogant because of a little bit of achievement.
Parents who are adults and the elderly should not blindly encourage their children to pursue the goal of “being ahead of the curve”, but guide them to live realistically and to know their own strength.
There are a lot of old people who just opened their mouths talking about how many decisions you make in the workplace, how wise you are and showing your credibility, talking about your business experience, thinking I make a lot of money.
The older you are, the more realistic you have to be. What cannot be done, do not promise others, do not say in front of your family, promptly remind your children of unrealistic thoughts and ways of doing things.
Second, half-hearted knowledge do not speak to avoid “misunderstanding”
What can be said clearly, what cannot be said should be kept silent.
What you know is what you know, what you don’t know is what you don’t know. As a person ages, experience will naturally become richer, but because of that, one should not consider oneself to be omniscient.
When one is old, it is right to care about others, but that concern has to be timely, substantive. Don’t always share with your experiences. Most of the time, you need to quietly watch the story change, be an outsider, and be a good listener.
Third, if you don’t like what others say, don’t say it, then you can show respect and friendliness.
How to love others, care for the elderly and care for the younger generation cannot clearly explain a few words. It is understanding the back story of life with your heart.
People who do not know you often have unspeakable sadness, have different paths to development. There is a gap between parents and children, and there are disagreements, let alone outsiders.
So a kind old person will not only point at unfamiliar people but face it with a smile. In the family, the daughter-in-law and son-in-law are difficult to be accepted by the elderly. Outside of the family, we often have to meet small, wicked people because we do not know their experiences and their ideals of life.
Fourth, if you attack each other, don’t say it is ‘intellectual bow’
A word that doesn’t fit, is angry, and then clenched his fist. Many old people are old, their health is not as good as before, but they still cannot control their temper. Maybe you’re not wrong, but if you can’t bow your head, you’re wrong. Bowing your head actually stops the damage.
Faced with ups and downs in life, mature people always observe and calmly endure. Unconsciously we are used to silence.