2023-08-29 04:13:00
After marriage, I lived with my husband’s family on the same piece of land, but not in the same house. My parents-in-law built me and my wife a small house right next to my grandparents’ house, just a yard away from each other. My father-in-law told me that my mother-in-law was quite meticulous, so I lived separately to avoid collisions, and my mother-in-law’s mother-in-law didn’t have any friction over little things.
My life as a bride is also easy because I live near my husband’s parents but still have privacy, my wife and I eat separately so it is very comfortable. Half a year after the wedding, I became pregnant. It was nothing to talk about when I was 8 months pregnant. Towards the end of pregnancy, I felt heavier and more uncomfortable. The baby developed well, I also gained up to 20kg so it was very sluggish. Not only that, but also frequent cramps.
My belly is out, but I still usually take care of washing the dishes after every meal. (Illustration)
That night the couple finished their meal, I still washed the dishes as usual even though I was pregnant. But because I sat to eat for a long time, when I stood up, my legs were numb and my stomach was heavy, so I asked my husband to bring the dishes to the kitchen to let me wash. Who would have guessed that at that moment, the mother-in-law came over to witness the scene, and she did not understand why she rushed to take the bowl from her son’s hand, turned to her daughter-in-law and scolded and slapped her:
– After eating, just sit there so that your husband has to wash the dishes. This kind of wife can only be thrown away. There’s nothing wrong with washing the dishes that makes me feel pregnant. It’s really nice to know the body!
My mother-in-law also said a series of difficult sentences that I couldn’t remember, my ears fluttered and suddenly I felt confused as to where I was wrong. Is it wrong for me to be pregnant and tired of asking my husband to help with the housework? Meanwhile, my husband stood still, unable to react or defend his wife.
Scolding me, she turned to scold my husband for spoiling his wife. Men and boys washing dishes are like wearing skirts.
Suddenly being scolded and slapped by my mother-in-law, I was confused as to where I was wrong? (Illustration)
After a moment of surprise, I calmly walked in front of my mother-in-law, looked her straight in the eyes and asked a question:
– I was also pregnant, why are you so harsh with me?
At this point, it was my mother-in-law’s turn to be surprised. Since the day I became a bride, I have never reacted to my husband’s parents, always calling “yes”. Now seeing my reaction, perhaps she is not mentally prepared for this situation. A little confused, she turned to scold my husband a few more sentences and then went home to complain to her father-in-law, I still heard her voice here.
Thua triumphed, I decided from now on I would train my husband to do some things to help his wife get pregnant so that his mother-in-law would get used to the image of a son doing housework. If I don’t, it’s only going to get worse when I’m in confinement. Please suggest me some things my husband can do to help my wife get pregnant so that I can start my “career teaching career”!
Things husbands can do to support their wives during pregnancy
– Help wife with housework
Housework in the past may have been the sole responsibility of the wife, but when the wife is pregnant, the husbands should consciously know how to help their wives. Every day the pregnant belly becomes more and more bloated, so it can’t take care of all that work.
– Attend antenatal class with wife
The future child care is not only for the wife, you should be the one with her to take care of and raise the child you love. Participating in an antenatal class will help you gain more knowledge about pregnancy, child care, etc. Especially in the first few days when your wife gives birth, you will be proactive in taking care of both your wife and children.
– Arrange a time with your wife to go to pregnancy health check
Taking the time to visit your wife first and foremost is to show her that you are with her, going with her through all levels of emotions, both happy and difficult, during pregnancy. pregnant.
– Let’s prepare things for the baby
The work of preparing baby clothes is also difficult because there are so many things to buy. But feel happy and meaningful when shopping with your wife and welcoming the baby. The husband will become a “genuine” bodyguard to accompany his wife and children everywhere, everywhere.
– Massage, full body massage for wife
During pregnancy, your wife will not only experience physiological and psychological problems, but also often experience body aches, cramps, etc., especially in the last months of pregnancy. Husbands should regularly massage and massage their wives to make them feel more relaxed and comfortable.
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