It is only unusual for a child to hurt himself, to make it obvious, and to be accompanied by symptoms of behavioral or emotional difficulties (isolation from others, aggression or sadness, back peeing like a child…).
Overreacting adults do not help children to give up the behavior, but also make children more shy, afraid, guilty and turn to “underground activities” in a stealthy, sophisticated way in private, hidden places. adult eyes (toilets, empty corners, …), affect the psychology and sexual conception of children later.
Prescriptions for the “trickster”
Seeing preschoolers do it, adults are even more “panic” than children! There are girls who are worried, afraid, condemning their students for being spoiled, then scolding and punishing them. Young, unmarried teachers are often embarrassed and helpless.
Please talk gently with parents to agree and coordinate with children at home – in class:
1. Eliminate the conditions and factors that cause the baby to do so: tight underwear, nylon clothes, a lot of fabric softener, … Do not let the baby take off naked. Avoid idle, sad, empty free time. Direct your child to games that require the use of hands. Work more to sleep better.
2. Replace pillows and stuffed animals with folded blankets to rest your legs or cover your belly.
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3. Control comics and cartoons with love scenes.
4. Take the baby to the pediatrician to check the “underpants” to detect the case of tight foreskin, vulvovaginitis causing itching, itching or when there are unusual signs.
Should keep a natural attitude, do not “make a big deal” as if you are catching a wrong action, do not repeat when the child has “weaned”, do not embarrass the child. Remember: “What a child sees is not only remembered by him, but also becomes a part of his soul” (Maria Montessori quote).
According to Vietnamese Women