Many often wonder how to wear black to a wedding, as the unspoken etiquette of these ceremonies excluded the use of this color in them, especially if you were the mother of the groom or (horrible) you were known to have dated him in the past. But now that weddings are officiated via Zoom and streamed live on YouTube, it’s time to renew those old traditions. The black It’s also the color of timeless, effortless elegance – the classic LBD, the androgynous elegance of Le Smoking – and for those who want to invest in something that can be used for more than one use, it’s the most practical option.
You’re thinking about dress in black to attend a wedding, or even as a bridesmaid? Find out what to buy to ensure a good reception.
How to wear black to a wedding
With black, sexy returns
In order not to appear monotonous, we recommend that you show some skin. This doesn’t necessarily mean a Monot dress bridesmaid moment like Kendall Jenner’s, but it’s true that black can act as a neutralizing color when you’re showing some flesh. Look for off-the-shoulder silhouettes, or dresses and jumpsuits with subtle cuts, that complement your own curves without overshadowing the bride. If the wedding is on the beach, you can be a little more daring with the proportion of meat and fabric.
wear black in suits
For the most androgynous, there is nothing better than the black tuxedo. If the suit is more your bridal style, look for sumptuous details in velvet, silk or satin, from brands like Tom Ford and Racil. Avoid anything approaching work clothes, like pinstripe details or zippers. For a modern take on Le Smoking, we also recommend pairing a black suit with a soft white t-shirt, rather than a shirt.
floor length black dresses
Do you want to give it all the glamour? A floor-length gown is a brilliant way to hit the mark, and can be worn over and over again after the wedding. Search black dresses in sumptuous, flowing fabrics: silk, satin, moiré and light crepe, and in landmark brands such as Norma Kamali, Dolce & Gabbana and Miu Miu. Finally, add metallic accessories: silver stilettos, sequined clutches or sparkly platforms.
black is embellished
Make the decorations your maximum. Enhance black ensembles with extravagant accents—especially if the wedding dress code calls for black tie or cocktail parties—like diamonds, crystals, rhinestones, and sequins. Brands like Saint Laurent, Andrew GN and Ganni meet this requirement. Be sure to balance your look with simple makeup: less smoky eyes and more of a simple coat of mascara.
black in bloom
For those who love the romantic style, a black dress with flowers accentuates the elegance. From large-scale to subtle flowers, a host of brands are channeling the power of petals for the wedding season, including Oscar de La Renta, Erdem, Natasha Zinko and Cos.
Article originally published in British Vogue, vogue.co.uk. Adapted by Amira Saim.