“I don’t see you as a daughter-in-law”… What should I do about sexual harassment by my father-in-law with his zipper down?

2024-04-09 23:17:41

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The story of a woman in her 30s was told that she was worried about her father-in-law, who frequently sexually harassed her when he was drunk.

On the 9th, JTBC’s ‘Case Manager’ reported the story of Mr. Kim, who has been married for 5 years and has a 3-year-old son.

Ms. Kim said, “Originally, my most reliable ‘side’ was my father-in-law in his 60s. Whenever there was a fight, he took my side, not his son’s. He always called me a ‘pretty daughter-in-law’ and was very kind to me.”

The problem began early this year. While eating at her husband’s house, her husband and mother-in-law left to go to a nearby convenience store.

At this time, my father-in-law, who was very drunk, went to the bathroom, unzipped his pants, and came out. When Mr. Kim said, “Father, Namdaemun is open,” his father-in-law said, “What do you think? You could lock it.”

After returning home, Kim received a phone call from her father-in-law. His father-in-law suddenly asked, “I heard your marital relationship is not good these days? I heard you fight a lot.”

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Ms. Kim said, “I once mentioned something about our marital relationship to my mother-in-law in passing, but I had no idea it would reach my father-in-law’s ears. My husband was next to me at the time, and I just said to my father-in-law, ‘I think you were very drunk,’ and hung up the phone in a hurry.”

She continued, “I had a good day with my mother-in-law, so we went out to eat, and my father-in-law got drunk again. Then he whispered, ‘I don’t see you as my daughter-in-law,’ and laughed lightly.” He continued, “I was embarrassed and ran away to the bathroom, but my father-in-law followed me and said, ‘It’s a public bathroom.’ “I said, ‘Let’s do some business together,’” he said.

At the same time, he added, “I got angry at my father-in-law, saying, ‘Don’t say nonsense,’ but he laughed and said, ‘I want to date you, but it’s such a shame.'” The panelists were shocked.

Ms. Kim told everything to her husband, and her husband, who was angry, called her father and argued with her.

Then the father-in-law, who had sobered up a little, showed a hostile attitude again, saying, “Are you out of your mind? What kind of father-in-law would say something like that to his daughter-in-law? Why do you make people fools?”

Mr. Kim, shocked to see him getting angry instead of apologizing, left the house for two days and then came back. Upon hearing this news, her father-in-law said, “I don’t remember, but I’m sorry that you did that,” and scolded Kim, saying, “How can a person called a mother leave home and leave her child behind?”

The mother-in-law scolded Mr. Kim, saying, “I know your father-in-law is not that type of person, and you don’t make up things that don’t exist, but what should I do?” and “Why are you making this happen just because of your father-in-law’s drunkenness?”

In response to this story, lawyer Yang Ji-yeol advised, “The husband has a big role to play. He must cut off from his in-laws and protect his wife.”

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