JAKARTA, KOMPAS.com – Aming Tell me about her long struggle to get out of the vicious cycle of sexual harassment.
Aming experienced sexual harassment for years from elementary school to college.
It wasn’t easy for Aming to get out of that nightmare because there were several factors that kept him silent.
Aming was first harassed when he was in 5th or 6th grade. Star Extravaganza The man admitted that he was confused by what he received, but he did not deny that there was a taboo pleasure that was felt.
“There, I was young, I didn’t know what sex and sexuality were, that’s where I got abused. I was confused, what’s the name of a child of that age, what kind of curiosity is sex? And finally I found a taboo pleasure, but after a while I feel like, I don’t think it’s like this,” Aming was quoted as saying Kompas.com from YouTube STORY BANG Denny SumargoTuesday (26/4/2022).
Furthermore, Aming could not report to his family about the sexual harassment he experienced because the perpetrator was the closest person to him.
Aming said, the perpetrator is an adult who lures something and shows a manipulative attitude to him.
“What is this (feeling), but why are you addicted, but how come it’s been wrong for a long time, but on the other hand, when I want to tell my family, I’m also afraid because this (the perpetrator) is the closest person, he does something like that. gaslighting, So I was completely wrong,” said Aming.
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In the end, the sexual harassment made Aming feel insecure and worthless. These feelings affect Aming’s relationship with other people of the opposite sex.
“I can’t continue like this, when I have a relationship with someone, the opposite sex, I feel like I feel inferior, I don’t understand,” said Aming.