There are only 2 brothers in my family. I’m the eldest brother, so from childhood to adulthood, I was aware that I had to be responsible for you. Talking about our situation, we are also very disadvantaged. When I was 6 years old, my parents died in an accident. Since then, my brother and I have lived with our grandparents. Although we were loved by our grandparents wholeheartedly, we still had to live in poverty.
When he was in the third year of university, his younger brother also entered the university lecture hall. At that time, because of raising my brother to study, I left halfway to focus on earning money. Looking back now, I still don’t regret that decision. Because my life may be difficult but for my brother, I don’t want that.
When I got married, I also told my wife about my situation and frankly told her that for me, my brother is the only one. It’s okay if it’s rich, but when it’s difficult, we have to reach out to help no matter what. My wife was very comfortable at that time, she also said:
“My brother is also your brother. If he knows this, I won’t regret it at all, you can rest assured that it is.”
After getting married, my wife and I were given a house by our grandmother. Actually, it sounds big, but my father-in-law is very rich. A house is nothing to him. Even so, I am grateful to know that compared to other people who struggle to find a place to live, I am still lucky. Since the house is quite large, I persuaded my wife to let my younger brother live with me. Anyway, my brother is only at home in the evening, and during the day, he works, so it doesn’t cost much to eat and drink.
Men sometimes have to meet friends, especially young people. So some evenings, my brother took his friends home to eat. Around 12 o’clock at night, they all dispersed. I see with young people, this is normal and nothing too extreme. But my wife noticed and said again:
“You have to tell Uncle Thanh to check it out! Living with brothers and sisters, every week, they bring friends to eat and drink together. I have a hard time sleeping, they keep making noise, so it’s harder to sleep.”
At that time, I found that my wife was also very strict. Did she never gather with friends when she was young? Or is it because my sister is staying at home that she is so difficult? Then after that, I also told her to refrain from taking friends home. Anyway, my wife said she had her reasons.
A few months ago, I noticed that my brother seemed quiet and melancholy. When I asked, I found out that my brother invested in business with his friends. Interest is nowhere to be seen, only know that now the capital is lost, my brother still owes an amount of 500 million more. Just worked for a year, where does he get the money to pay the debt?
At first, I also thought of asking my wife to borrow some of my savings for a temporary loan. Because now many people can’t pay their debt, when it comes to debt collection, I think about it, I’m worried that my brother will fall into that situation, so I just want to pay it off as soon as possible. However, I just opened my mouth, my wife interrupted:
“I said it was simple, if he played, he would accept it. Neither of us have that much money left over. I just lent him 100 million and that’s it. The rest he borrowed elsewhere to pay.”
The one family that my wife talks like that. Thinking for a long time, I finally boldly told my wife to plug in the red book to get money to give to my brother. The house we are living in is worth 3 billion. If you borrow 500 million, it is also easy. However, my wife still disagrees with everyone. She even asked me in surprise:
“My father’s house gave me, what right do you have to ask to borrow the book? Moreover, I still pay the debt to my brother-in-law. If my father knew about this, he would curse to death. I don’t agree, you can do whatever you want.”
Because of that, we started having a lot of conflicts. I found my wife selfish, and my wife blamed me for thinking only of my brother. blood and intestines together, if I don’t feel sorry for you, who else would I feel sorry for? Then one day, my wife forgot to lock the safe, I got 250 million in it and gave it to her to pay the debt. When I got home, my wife made a fuss and asked for a divorce.
Yesterday, we just finished the proceedings in court. It’s also sad to think that we have only been married for nearly a year and have broken up. But to be honest, I don’t feel too sorry for leaving my wife. A person who only knows herself like her, how can she think for anyone else? Now I just want to quickly earn money to pay off my brother’s debt. As for the remarriage, maybe next time I will have to choose more carefully to avoid a breakdown like this time.