Joey, a 31-year-old participant on the Dutch reality dating series Boer zoekt vrouw, has voiced his frustration regarding the difficulty of finding a partner who shares his desire for a strictly monogamous relationship.
The farmer, currently featured on the program, noted that his search for long-term commitment remains elusive.
- Joey, 31, is currently seeking a partner on the long-running reality series Boer zoekt vrouw.
- He struggles to find other men interested in a traditional, monogamous relationship.
- Fellow contestant Aart shares these frustrations, citing a lack of gay men in his rural area.
During a recent date with fellow contestant Aart, Joey opened up about the paradox he faces in the modern dating market. As reported by RTL Boulevard, Joey observed that while many people express a desire for monogamy, the actual practice of finding a partner with that same goal feels increasingly rare. “Is well difficult, right, to find someone in a monogamous relationship?” he questioned during the episode.
Joey expressed skepticism over the discrepancy between what people say they want and what they are actually willing to pursue. He noted that despite the vocal consensus among singles that they prefer committed relationships, the practical reality of meeting someone who follows through on that preference remains a struggle.
Aart, who is also looking for love on the program, validated Joey’s concerns during their interaction. He explained that he finds himself in the same predicament, often struggling to maintain momentum when he does meet potential partners. Aart pointed to his geographical location as a primary obstacle, noting that in his specific agricultural village, the pool of potential partners is extremely limited.
The geographic disconnect extends beyond just the initial meeting phase. Aart mentioned that when he does connect with someone, the interest often fades quickly. He also noted that many potential partners are hesitant to relocate to the countryside, which complicates his ability to build a future with someone.
“There comes someone to you sometimes, but they keep that up a few times and then it often stops too,” Aart stated regarding his experience.
| Contestant | Primary Challenge | Stated Goal |
|---|---|---|
| Joey | Finding shared monogamous intent | Serious, committed relationship |
| Aart | Limited local dating pool | Long-term rural partnership |
Boer zoekt vrouw, hosted by Yvon Jaspers, continues to be a staple of Dutch television, airing on NPO 1.
The participants continue to search for partners willing to commit to the rural lifestyle.
