2024-04-13 19:20:34
Squirting is the act of cumming from a vagina during sex. Because we almost only know the practice from porn, there are many ominous myths surrounding the topic. So also that you can either cum or not. But that’s wrong, because women have to Learn to squirt. We explain how it works and also which half-truths about it you should quickly forget.
Instructions for learning to squirt:
Learning to squirt = understanding squirting
Squirting is often referred to as female squirting and from a purely visual perspective the term is very appropriate because the woman can squeeze a stream of fluid out of her vagina when sexually excited.
It is believed that during sex, a chamber behind the G-spot can be stimulated, which fills with fluid. In the event of overstimulation or an orgasm, this discharges very quickly and can even squirt. That’s called squirting.
However, before we explain to you how you can learn to squirt, you should first:understand what exactly is happening in your body. That’s why we’ll first clear up 5 myths about squirting:
1. Squirting is female ejaculation.
Absolutely not. Female ejaculation and squirting are completely different things. A woman’s normal cum is – similar to a man’s – slightly milky and sticky. Squirt however, is a clear liquid, which often comes out of the vagina and does not flow.
While many women ejaculate unconsciously, squirting happens consciously, which is why many women have to learn to do it consciously.
Squirt is not milky white, but clear and watery like water. Photo: Deon Black/Pexels
2. The woman cums while squirting.
No, as with female ejaculation, orgasm and suirting do not always have to go hand in hand. With appropriate stimulation, a woman can squirt several times during the act or masturbation, even without an orgasm.
It is probably this myth in particular that makes many men hot when the topic is discussed. Because squirting, like strong female ejaculation, is a clear visual indicator that the partner is enjoying sex and has fun.
3. Squirting is peeing during sex.
Here too: a clear no. The exact composition of the fluid when squirting is still a mystery to scientists. The largest component is clear fluid from the urinary bladder. Sometimes some urine can be mixed in with it. But this is completely normal and absolutely nothing to be disgusted by. Squirt is colorless, usually odorless and hardly tastes good.
If you want to know more about this, read our article about squirting and peeing.
G-spot, female ejaculation and squirting: We’ll explain how they’re connected here. (Photo: Unsplash)
4. Squirting only works through vaginal stimulation.
Not right either. Squirting in women can be triggered by many impulses. Both vaginally and clitorally (it has now been confirmed that both stimulate the clitoris) a woman can get hot enough to squirt.
If you want to learn to squirt, you should know which stimulation you enjoy the most.
5. Every woman can learn to squirt.
Opinions are divided here. From a medical perspective, there is no reason why every woman couldn’t learn to squirt, because it doesn’t require any special anatomy. Nevertheless, you will probably hardly see a hand raised in your circle of friends when you ask which of your friends can do it.
Squirting is a very intimate moment and a little unusual for women the first time because it feels like peeing. But please believe us: It’s not worth the fear because the feeling is amazing. It will enrich your pleasure and you will experience more intense orgasms.
Relax and fuel your fantasy. Maybe with erotic short stories?
Instructions: This is how you can learn to squirt
Once the switch is flipped, you won’t have to think about it much anymore and you can enjoy it. The easiest way for many women is to first try squirting on their own and then try it out with their partner. So take some time for yourself when you try out our tips.
Step 1: Squirting preparation
It is very important that you can relax to explore your body and your desire. So choose a time when you’re alone in the apartment, don’t have an appointment and don’t have any tasks floating around in your head. This is the only way you can learn and enjoy squirting.
Free yourself from all shame. Squirting is nothing reprehensible, nothing pornographic and absolutely natural.
You can also make these small preparations:
- Drink enough water because you will lose water.
- Go to the toilet first so there won’t be any urine in your squirt.
- Place a towel underneath you.
- Find a comfortable place (shower and bathtub work too, because we all know what the shower head can do).
- Get in the mood with hot thoughts or erotic sites for women
Step 2: Squriten beim Solo
Now there is several ways to approach the squirt: You can satisfy yourself normally and watch your orgasm. Or you can try the hook hand technique. We explain both techniques in more detail below:
Pay close attention to your body the next time you have an orgasm. The “peeing feeling” gives you the signal to squirt. (Photo: imago images / Westend61) Option 1: Learn to squirt with orgasm
You often feel like you have to pee shortly before or during your orgasm. This is your body telling you that it would like to squirt. We are used to suppressing this feeling. But today you’re all alone, relaxed and prepared for mess, so just let it go.
When you feel the urge to pee, squeeze a little, as if you were actually going to pee. It probably won’t spray then, but there are a few drops. This is the first step. Each time it gets easier and more liquid will come out. (However, garden hose jets that never die down are rare. This is usually helped artificially in porn.)
If you are familiar with this “feeling of peeing” and know what it means, you can too outside of your orgasm, notice when you are ready to squirt and consciously experience these moments.
The hook position of the fingers triggers exactly the right places to make you squirt. Option 2: Learn to squirt with the hook hand
You can see this method of learning to squirt in a lot of porn. However, things tend to be exaggerated and sometimes carried out too brutally. Therefore, start stimulating your G-spot carefully. Then take your middle finger and ring finger and form them into a hook. With that you go into yourself and make a crawling movement towards the heel of your hand.
If you don’t feel anything, you can increase the intensity a little or apply light pressure to your lower abdomen from the outside with your other hand. You want to stimulate the area in your vagina that feels a little rougher and walnut-like. Direct stimulation of the G-spot causes the area to swell and will eventually discharge explosively.
If you want to try squirting, you should do it with a partner you trust. (Or a one night stand that you’ll never see again.)
How you can learn to squirt during sex
Are you curious about trying squirting with a partner? Then talk about it beforehand. Squirting is easier when you trust the person and you are both excited about your new sexual adventure. Put a towel under you here too and get in the mood.
Now you can use both options from above: Either you start paying close attention to your body and receive the signal to squirt, or you let your G-spot be pampered with the hook hand. Exploring your sexuality together is guaranteed to bring you both fun and lots of climaxes.
Squirting is a process, so take it easy!
Squirting is a bombastic sexual enrichment that you shouldn’t be afraid of. But please don’t be discouraged if you can’t do it right away. It takes many women years to really get to know their bodies.
What’s important is relaxation, hot thoughts and good pelvic floor muscles. Then learning to squirt will definitely work for you too.
There are also more naughty instructions in our weekly sexperience. Or here:
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