2024-04-12 07:27:00
[Middle-aged Good Voice/Lin Jiaqi/Breast Cancer/Snake]”Life is like this. You think the difficulties in front of you make it difficult for you to go on, but as long as you don’t give up, there will be more beautiful scenery waiting for you ahead!” Experienced Suffering from the cold treatment of her parents, the shock of losing her daughter, the cheating of her second husband, and multiple serious illnesses that hovered on the verge of life and death, 60-year-old Lin Jiaqi participated in “The Voice of Middle Ages 2” last year. Although she lost in the end, she said that during the competition, Not only have I fulfilled my seemingly unattainable dream when I was young, but I have also made many good friends. I believe that the most glorious moment in my life is now.
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A rough first half of life
Lin Jiaqi grew up in a family that favored sons over daughters. Due to the cold treatment by her parents, she yearned for “love” since she was a child. At the age of 21, she decided to hastily marry her first husband, and soon gave birth to her son. one girl. She said that she hired a nanny to take care of her daughter because she worked away from home for a long time, but she did not take care of her daughter properly. She still remembered that when her daughter passed away, she had bruises on her head, face and buttocks, and she suspected that she had been abused. lethal. The little life only came into the world for only one and a half months, which has become an eternal pain in her heart! Later, a baby girl was born. Just when she thought the shadow could be repaired, she discovered that her husband was having an affair. Their marriage lasted for 9 years and ended in divorce.
She still had a longing for love, and later met her second husband, who was previously married. Just when she thought she could have a new start by marrying her daughter to him, history soon repeated itself again. The other man kept challenging her bottom line and had affairs one after another.
“I tolerated the first marriage for nine years, and the second marriage for 28 years. I later realized that continuing to tolerate it would only make me suffer from internal problems. I later developed serious health problems. I suspected that it might be caused by Because it has to do with my long-suppressed emotions.”
Breast cancer and cervical cancer
In 2002, Lin Jiaqi was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 38, and the following year she was diagnosed with cervical cancer. Facing the torture of cancer, she said that even though the treatment was very painful, she never thought of giving up because she knew she had to work hard for her little daughter.
“My daughter was only nine years old when she was diagnosed with breast cancer. As a single mother, if anything happened to me, my daughter would have to go to an orphanage. So, I decided to face it bravely, underwent two surgeries, and received 30 times of electrotherapy.”
It’s hard to imagine how a weak girl can be strong as a mother! She said that shortly after her surgery, she had to return to work urgently to make a living. In order not to affect the company’s operations, she often went to work in the morning and went to the hospital for electrotherapy in the afternoon. As a “famous store salesperson”, she said that even during a serious illness, she still worked hard to achieve great results, which earned her great appreciation from many supervisors.
Although the cancer has not recurred since the treatment, God seems to have not stopped testing Lin Jiaqi.
In recent years, I have been frequently troubled by the sequelae of snake birth.
Lin Jiaqi gave birth to snakes in 2015 and 2021. She said that because of her hindsight, she missed the best time for treatment, and her body’s immunity also declined rapidly, leaving severe painful sequelae. Because it affected her work, she was forced to retire early.
“Even if I take painkillers, the pain is so severe that I can’t even walk around the house or sleep in bed. But three years later, the pain in the back of my head is still there.” From time to time I would get scratches, scratches, and injuries, and it seemed like a painful cycle that was never ending.”
There’s a bright future
From her youth to her old age, Lin Jiaqi’s life path seems to be full of challenges, but for the sake of her beloved daughter, she never gives up. As her daughter has grown up and devoted herself to social work, Lin Jiaqi, who is now 60 years old, decided last year to pursue her youthful singing dream – to participate in “The Voice of Middle Ages 2”. Even though she did not win any awards during the competition, she said with a smile that the gains she gained during the competition could not be compared with the results.
My soul was encouraged, which gave me the courage to face difficulties and expanded my social circle. Therefore, I send this message to some fellow travelers who are facing major difficulties: As long as you keep moving forward, the road ahead will be sweet.
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