Actress Huang Yuxin is a former Taekwondo national player and has five dans in international Taekwondo. (Picture/Review of Huang Yuxin’s Facebook page)
Taekwondo player Luo Jialing was recently disqualified in the women’s 57kg competition at the U.S. Open because she was 0.1kg overweight before the match. Afterwards, her coach Liu Congda apologized on Facebook, but wrote, “Jialing was lucky and didn’t drop a little more. The same can be naked weight”, making the outside world think that there is a suspicion of shirking responsibility, and was bombarded by netizens. In this regard, Huang Yuxin, the wife of a former national player, revealed the helplessness of Taiwan’s sports ecology and called on the outside world to stop cyberbullying.
Huang Yuxin wrote a long post on Facebook today (20th), “I seldom mention my husband’s professional field in my fanpage, because I am afraid that the focus will be blurred, but this period of time is really difficult. Competition It has come to an end, and I want to share some feelings with you. In February 2020, my husband was entrusted by Jialing’s parents, hoping that he could go to Kaohsiung to help Jialing qualify for the Olympics (at that time, Jialing was too young, So no one expected her to win the medal)”.
Huang Yuxin mentioned, “My father originally promised to return to Taipei after the Olympics, but this time there is no way to do it, because the postponement of the Olympics also means that we will be separated for more than a year. At that time, I looked at my husband who took the high-speed train back and forth every week. Look at the child who can only spend a short time with his father every week. When my husband returns to Taipei, he has to set aside time to watch training at the grassroots level. All these things are invisible to everyone on the stage, but I am by his side, and I understand him. Heart”.
She went on to say that in this incident, there were a lot of people who were sour on sports for a day, and left messages everywhere that seriously injured Mr. People around them advised “it’s okay after the limelight”, but she was really sad, “My husband is not the only one like this in Taiwan. In order to realize the dream of players, how many coaches have to give up the grassroots and family to come to the national team. They train on weekdays, and go to the grassroots and spend time with their families on holidays. The players who get the cards are the efforts of the players, and the players who don’t get the cards are the coaches. s failure”.
Huang Yuxin said bluntly, “When Jia Ling lost her weight in the United States, she was so stressed that she couldn’t speak for two days. Seeing the coach being abused indiscriminately by everyone, she cried guiltily for several days. Who can help her at this time? I’m sure it’s not anyone on the Internet, but what about my husband? He was scolded badly but does he have time to be sad at this moment? No! Not only not, but he has to harden up and take all the responsibility.”
Huang Yuxin said, “My emotions changed from anger on the first day→sadness→anxiety→loss→disappointment. The child came back from school and asked: Mom, dad, why is 0.1? My classmates said that dad was on the news! This really overwhelmed us The last straw. I’m a public figure and I’m used to gossip, but what if this kind of cyberbullying happens in any normal family? I’m not sure every family can handle the stress.” .