New research, helpful tips for optimal child rearing

Children have a very sensitive nature, while raising them, mothers often say things that are not appropriate and later it affects the whole personality of the child.

A child is very innocent, he doesn’t understand meaningful things, so, think before you speak. The child always remembers the mother’s tone and style, so talk to the child very gently.

If your child falls down in front of you while playing and starts crying, don’t scold him, instead check his injuries.

Give him medical attention and tell him that it’s okay, it happens in the game. Choose another time to give advice.

Children are often reluctant to do their own work, for example, they want to do their own hair, so don’t be impatient and say that school is late or we don’t have time, etc. Instead, say Let’s both do our own combs and see who makes the hair first.

A child learns a lot from this kind of play.

If the child is doing a school project, never say, “Let me help you,” as you are not giving him a chance to develop his skills, or if he wants to tie his own shoelaces, let him do it, and in the meantime. Ask him different questions like how can you tie the ribbon this way or how will the project look if done this way etc.

Never get angry with the child or tell him to do not disturb me, instead explain to him that you are doing something important and give him a task or a game to keep him occupied during this time.

Try to do the necessary work in front of him. Give him praise or a gift for sitting quietly or playing. Mother’s phrase “do not disturb me” directly implies that the mother has the child. There is no time for

Often mothers get tired of children’s noise and threaten them to come to the walla that your father is going to come and I will complain to him about you.

This approach is tantamount to devaluing yourself. Fathers are not responsible for instilling discipline.

This is also the work of mothers. In this way, the child understands that his mother does not have the ability to explain him, after which he always starts listening to what his mother says.