2023-10-25 19:21:41
Pamela Franco arrives at ‘Café con la Chévez’ to confess like never before. The singer who is relaunching her artistic career says that she has the best relationship with Christian Domínguez and celebrates each year they meet as a triumph because of the ‘myth’ that exists about him separating from her partner after three years. In addition, she specified that she is not afraid of her pichangas.
The former member of Alma Bella also remembers her past with ‘Chemo’ Ruiz and faces criticism about her relationship with Christian Domínguez, which is always under constant evaluation by her followers due to the cumbiambero’s ‘history’.
Finally, Pamela Franco confesses that she does not have an ‘engagement ring’, marks her distance from ‘La Chabelita’, dreams of marriage and more. The coffee is already served
Are you the last of your brothers? At what age did your mother have you?
At 41, I was older. My mother did not plan to have more children, when she had the symptoms, she thought it was menopause but it was me. I had the best mother in the world, she was always there, she became my only and best friend over the years, it was great to always have her for me. Even though there was a time when I was no longer with her in Chimbote, we were always in communication and every time something happened to me, calling her and hearing her voice calmed me down.
How did you take your mother’s departure?
The topic of my mother is a topic that I still cannot fully assimilate or overcome… the loss of a loved one, who means everything to you, because that is my mother. I always speak in the present, I don’t like to speak in the past. When I no longer had it, I became frustrated. It happens to me that when I want to do the things that I could do with her, I feel alone, that I have no one, because she was the only person I trusted in everything. With my mother I could be free, tell her my successes, mistakes, my worst horrors, she was never shocked, but she didn’t give me an amen either, she corrected me, she let me make mistakes, but she had that shoulder to cry on. She always let me be, she told her, she listened to me and told me ‘I don’t like this, but you decide’, because I’m stubborn, and when she came back she told me ‘I told you so’. It was with themes of love and work, my mother was always right in love and at work she encouraged me because I have always been very fearful, I didn’t like to take risks, I lost many opportunities because of that and she always told me ‘but why? You don’t try.’ Lastly, before she leaves, I jumped into the river and she helped me with many things before she leaves.
Pamela Franco confesses in Café con la Chevez and talks about Christian Domínguez. (Photo: Lenin Tadeo)
Were you there when your mother left?
Yes, my mother was hospitalized for a month but she couldn’t take it anymore, she wanted to go home. She arrived at her house the next day in the afternoon, at 2 in the afternoon… thank God my mother did not have a shocking death, she was in her bed. I was there for the last few seconds, she looked at me and I could see how she slowly closed her eyes and I was able to have my last conversation with her, I promised her what she wanted to hear, that I would be stronger because I was very weak, very sensitive, very crybaby, I would fall quickly, and the one who always picked me up was her, that’s why I was afraid because she wouldn’t be there anymore. In those last seconds with her, I had to tell her ‘mom, don’t worry, a new Pamela is born today’ and this is what you see now. The truth is that it makes me happy because I am honestly stronger, yes I cry but I see the pain differently because I feel that all people can go through difficult moments, but they are moments, we should not drown. What could kill me? I already buried my mother and it was the strongest pain, the only thing would be my daughter, but it was difficult to express to them that in that second that my mother left, it was a resounding change for me, I felt like a different person, I see life differently. I can’t go back in time, I regret many things with my mom, but I can’t do anything anymore, but whenever I talk to her, I feel her everywhere, I tell her that I am a better person day by day.
Did you cry for your mother lying on the floor?
Oh yes sister, I was a very weak, emotional person. I would cry for something stupid and my mom would pick me up from the floor. I will never forget that one day, kneeling on the floor, on her legs, she told me ‘save your tears for when I die’ and I didn’t listen to her, now how much I regret it.
Did you study Accounting?
I finished school and wanted to be an officer (PNP), I had my family, uncles and I greatly admired an uncle. I finished school with the hope of being an officer and with all the support of my family. But in the end my family changed my mind because I was a woman and anything could happen to me. So since I had part of the family who are economists, accountants, nothing to do with medicine, I said I’ll get into accounting and I had a godfather who was an accountant so they were going to support me. I said ‘I have to study something that will give me money’. I graduated, I finished, with cardboard and everything, I finished with my Bachelor’s degree, graduated and I went to college. I went to university. I worked for 3 years in Chimbote in fishing companies, both in maintenance and heavy lifting, I also came here, I worked in the newspaper El Peruano, and from there, my life changed because of Mr. Nílver Huárac.
Pamela Franco, partner of Christian Domínguez and former singer of “Alma Bella”, was the first artist to set foot on Gisela Valcárcel’s set. The cumbia singer -with his daughter in his arms- encouraged Franco from the stands, who performed “The most beautiful love I have” by Tito Nieves. (Photo: @elgranshowperu)
How did Nílver Huárac discover you?
I met Nílver through a friend and he wanted me to join when Leysi Suárez was leaving. He went to look for me in Chimbote to see me sing, but I was finishing my career, so it was my turn to say no. When I was here, working at El Peruano, he proposed it to me again because he was separating from Yolanda, that’s when I decided to try music. The first time he heard me sing at karaoke.
You have come a long way
I have been with Nílver, then with Yolanda and that is how we have been.
What do you think about what Yolanda Medina said, that Nílver no longer wanted her in the group because she was old?
I don’t think he even said it with malice and I don’t think he said it with the desire to do something… I think he told it as an anecdote. She told me at one point and I listened to her. The two can say many things but deep down they both respect each other, they appreciate the time they have worked together. There will always be little things, being in the environment, the broken telephone exists. They will talk and settle their differences. Yolanda is a very good person and Nílver also has her heart, well guarded, but she has it hahaha
Did Yolanda Medina stand up for you when you broke your heart?
She was… she was very brave, she is a lioness, she defends her girls. Even for me, who no longer works with her, she is always attentive, she is a good friend, she worries whether she is far away or close to her.
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HIS STORY WITH CHEMO RUIZ
Did he defend you from Chemo?
No, she was always with me and more than defending, she was there to support me because when you go through difficult times you need people, I had my family far away, she, being my boss and friend, behaved well because she supported me.
What happened to Chemo? You talked about attacks… was there a complaint?
Yes, the truth is I don’t remember well, it’s been several years. I said it at the time, I think things got out of control more than anything and that’s why everyone took their different path, I think I made the best decision and nothing, I don’t look back or to gain momentum. You learn from the mistakes you make and I have learned from several bad decisions I have made. Before I was a person who had delayed assimilation, like I put up with it and I put up with it but when it happens, it happens. So for me it didn’t happen hahaha.
Christian Domínguez is prohibited from calling Pamela Franco ‘baby’ because that’s what he called his exes. Photo: Diffusion
HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH CHRISTIAN DOMÍNGUEZ
How old are you with Christian?
I’m going for the four, I think that each one for me is breaking the prophecy that they say about him, maybe they keep asking me or they are already saying that he wants to leave me, honestly when I go on TV with Christian or talk about Christian, I always try to take it as a joke because if not the audience laughs at me, I prefer to laugh with them or have them laugh at what I say.
Is your relationship with Christian your best relationship?
With Christian we came together at a different time for me, as a woman, as a person. I have found in him… Christian is the person who has treated me best and I have the most beautiful relationship. We both have flaws and I’m screwed, but with our imperfect relationship, day by day we fight it and I have a hard-working man by my side, I have a man who I feel likes his wife, I like him as a man, we love each other, we We respect each other, we admire each other, we support each other, and we try every day to not only be good as a couple but as parents, which is very difficult, for me being a mother is the most difficult profession of all.
Pamela Franco and Christian Dominguez
Does marriage keep you up at night? Is there illusion?
I’m not going to act like I don’t, you want to get married, seal your family, but first he has to give me the ring, he will see his time, I’m not running either. Nowadays marriage is taken more lightly, marriage is more about how much you spend and it is also criticized. You spend, they criticize you and if you get divorced… worse. I take it calmly.
Weren’t the little rocks they gave you about commitment?
No, they were gifts. This little ring that looks like an engagement ring was given to me when we were one month old… but people always talk. I bought this other ring and I also gave one to him and he gave the other one to me in América Hoy. I don’t have an engagement ring, I show off my gifts and if he wants to give me more rings I get upset, but the engagement ring hasn’t arrived yet.
Magaly has sent them to therapy…
I’m in therapy, I go, I have a psychologist, but I looked for her because of my backpacks, I had an emotional issue carrying, more for my mother, for my daughter. I seek to heal my wounds because I want my daughter to see a strong woman because she learns what she sees. That’s what I wanted, since I didn’t have that basis, I wanted a specialist to help me cure certain things and in the process become a better person, a better woman with Christian. He accompanied me and went to therapy, he was not very supportive of that but then he liked it but she is my psychologist, so she paid for his appointment.
You complained to him a few days ago that he goes to the bar, that he doesn’t call you, that he turns off your cell phone…
I was asking him for a trip and since he works a lot, the trip hasn’t arrived until now. I understand it, but then I go with my best friend and he told me no and in the middle of the program he says, ‘if she wants to go with her friend, I’ll go with my friends too’, but if she doesn’t have time to go with me, how is he going to go with his friend. What I told her about her forgetting to pay for my cell phone was a joke, because I told her why she doesn’t forget about Tuesday nights, even Pedro Loli was involved.
Pamela Franco confesses in Café con la Chevez and talks about Christian Domínguez. (Photo: Lenin Tadeo)
Aren’t you afraid of pichangas?
No sister, I am 35 years old, I feel regal, safe, I am calm. Today, honestly, if he inspires distrust in me, that day I will feel that the relationship is already bad.
With all the background Christian has?
Oh, but who doesn’t have a history, here we are very hypocritical, everyone has their past, everyone has made mistakes, it’s just that my friend is very media-savvy… but it’s not that he… I’ve seen worse things in life, they call him Pinocchio, but I have seen the real liars. We have all lied, me too. I’m not judging Christian’s past, when I met him, I never thought I would be with him, but when I started talking to him, we were no longer on the program, when I gained trust in him, we were an open book, I don’t get into trouble , I am very loose, sometimes very rough because I say things as they are, as I feel and as I see in the world that all people make mistakes, why can’t I amend my mistake by being a better person and not making that mistake again. If I was wrong, why would I judge someone else? He knows all my cuchos.
Was your friendship with Christian Domínguez when he was with Chabelita?
I didn’t talk to Christian when he was with Isabel, I don’t like to talk about that because I speak my truth and since they already released some things… they will never get any message from me to him when I was with her… I don’t I was thinking of being with him, my sweetheart is churro but he was in another situation, I was going through the worst moment of my life, my mother was dying and thanks to ampay I started to bond with him, he supported me a lot and then we bonded again way but he arrived at a very precise moment and God knows why he does things. At the ampay there was a kiss but he was no longer with her… the thing about the watch is a lie, I gave the watch to him, that day I entrusted him with my cell phone and my watch and I think it had become unhooked and I entrusted it to him and He forgot to give it to me, but I never, there is no way… I think that at that moment, when things were said, people said it according to what they felt, when you are hurt, when you have feelings, the panorama makes you think about things that didn’t happen like that but you make the movie. I have my dead and I carry them like everyone else, but not that dead man.
Why did you archive your photos with Christian?
People assume and create their film that when I filed the photos with Christian, with my daughter, with my mother, having all that, they said no, she broke up with Christian, she deleted it and Christian had his Instagram with our photos, he had not taken out, people created their movie, assumed things. They said that we had done it for marketing, sometimes it makes me angry, but it goes away, who do I fight with, there are many, there is no way, I believe that when you are in this environment the important thing is that you know your truth, people those around you know your truth and that’s it.
Is Christian jealous? How do you keep it still?
When I told him I wanted to go on a trip with my friend, I wasn’t asking him for money, I was going to pay my ticket… My trip was scheduled but well… he’s jealous, although he says no, I’m more jealous. , but I don’t make any jealousy plans. I don’t check his cell phone, I have his password but I have never tried to access his cell phone… Once, years ago, it happened to me that I checked a cell phone and found little things, little messages, but not with Christian… with him I couldn’t It goes through the mind, that happens when you start to sense that something is wrong, but that doesn’t happen to me with Christian. Our problems are different, he hates and detests my character, it’s that I am frontal, I don’t shut up. I’ll tell you what I think at that moment. He is softer, his family is affectionate, my family is also loving but we are very direct, with my friends we also have a way of speaking, for him it is a little shocking. He likes me to say ‘my love’, ‘my life’. I’m not as affectionate as him, I have my moments. We are the water and the oil.
But did you bathe him?
I have my little things, I still bathe him when I can, when there is an opportunity you have to flatter him… this thing about relationships is push and pull, I’m not going to let go of the man either… there are moments when one realizes that I’m very involved in work or with the baby, and he needs it too.
Does Christian look at women on the street?
Oh no, we are on the street or on TV and I see a girl, Brenda Carvallo seems regal to me, I envy her, I love her, and I tell him ‘hey, look at Brenda, she doesn’t move at all’ and he tells me ‘yes, that’s good, how does it hold up’ and we talked, I like that, even about men too. I prefer him to comment because sometimes the eye pulls, and it’s not that we look because we want to be with that person, I’m more relaxed with that. It’s all the way you do it, whether he’s with me or not, there are men who look too much, it looks grotesque, crafty, it looks horrible, that’s wrong, but beauty can be seen.
Who would you like at your wedding?
Lucía de la Cruz, I love it. If I get married, it would be very small, with few people, a little sauce too, I don’t know if there would be cumbia, there would already be a lot of cumbia. I think he would call for male salseros. He would have a simple dress, nothing designer, why would I spend so much. There will be an exchange but I want something super simple, I always dreamed of it like that, I feel that at a wedding there have to be people who are going to hug you and wish you happiness. If I’m going to get married, there will still be criticism, so in any case there will be exchange, so that they criticize well.
How do you handle your role as a soloist?
There was never a real release and that’s how work has been going on, thank God I can’t complain, there has been work, although you know that after the quarantine the music has not been the same again. But right now I am doing a relaunch as it should be, Christian is no longer managing me, I am with a production company and the truth is I am super grateful because he is betting on me and we are seeing if I can leave the country, grow, because that is the artist’s idea.
Always with the same gender?
Pamela Franco is in the cumbia industry but in a live show we do everything. I do everything, I am super versatile, I can make a huayno, merengue, salsa, I have been in a salsa orchestra.
Christian Domínguez: Why did Pamela Franco announce her retirement from ‘Puro Sentimiento? (Photo: @pamela_francov1).
What happens when you are in Puro Sentimiento? Was there a preference with you?
I don’t know why that happens, I’m very good, I don’t know what’s happening… Pure Feeling, I’m going to be indiscreet, I didn’t enter with the intention of staying. When I joined, they all left, I was without a lead and Christian talked to me in communication with his partner so that I could support them for a while because new faces were going to join, to help them with the media. I said, I’m here for a while and I’m going to leave, beyond my age, one always has a direction even if it’s in the same cumbia. But the people, I don’t know what they must have been thinking, everything that was said I couldn’t tell you why they did it, I don’t know the people who came out to speak nor do I know why they came out to speak that way, I would never express myself and less, in front of a camera, no one’s bad, the medium of music is very difficult and we all struggle, work is also a privilege and I believe that no one should play with anyone’s work and no one should be offensive and more Among women, everyone has a light, we were all born with a different star, no one is the same physically, or as a person, nor do they have the same talent. I will never agree with people who attack each other, I will not respond, I never responded at the time and I will never respond now. I’m not a saint but if I have to fix something, I won’t fix it in front of a camera, I’m not going to go out and defame or hit with my words or offend anyone, either because of their physique or because of their age, any person, On the contrary, if someone asks me about a person who is in my field, I am going to applaud them, because everyone looks for their place, no one comes out in this field wanting to push someone to get in, everyone looks for their place and that is what I want. I don’t compete with anyone, I compete with myself, I try to be better day by day and I wish everyone the best, it makes me happy, when I see a Peruvian who is succeeding elsewhere I love it because they are opening the way Envy has not been a feeling that is within me. Having negative feelings does not hurt the other person, but rather yourself, it doesn’t let you be, it doesn’t make you look pretty, let’s leave those feelings behind, envy doesn’t let you… it brings you wrinkles.
What do you think about Magaly’s criticism?
It’s their job, the truth is that I don’t… I see what I want to see and nothing, that’s why I tell you, there are many people who may have a negative comment towards me, but none of those people really know Pamela Franco, they They assume things because of this image or this word.
Sometimes I stand in front of a camera and I didn’t sleep that day and I talk some nonsense and I rub it in and that’s why many other things come out, it happens, sometimes it goes away, but they don’t know the essence of the person and since they don’t know me, I don’t feel hurt, it doesn’t affect me.
How did you feel when they criticized your dress at a wedding you attended?
Damn, it happens to anyone, I promise that if they invite me again, I will pay to have a stone dress made for me. I had never said that I had designed it, Carmen wrote to me… Let’s take the positive, I had fun, the wedding was beautiful… weddings have their charm, especially when you don’t pay for it.
What do you think of the criticism of Christian Domínguez with the worm dance at Ethel’s wedding?
It amuses me to see him like that.
How do you do, do you have spinal problems?
Right now it’s already causing problems… lie, Christian is a very athletic person. He has to warm up before, but he is already used to it, but I like that he warms up, it amuses me, I laugh to death. I have already told him that he has to do it while he can, because when he is 60 years old, I am going to tell him, put on the shirt, but right now that he is strong, his body is super good and he has good genetics, so he has every right and If people like it, let them look and hire.
Have you put on your overalls?
Let’s not pretend, we are in 2023. That is no longer like a taboo, all the boys who train wear their things, there is nothing wrong with it.
Pamela Franco confesses in Café con la Chevez and talks about Christian Domínguez. (Photo: Lenin Tadeo)
Doesn’t it affect anything?
No, I think it gives you more. I had heard that she was the other way around, nooo, but I don’t know what they are giving her… they take good care of her at home.
Do you go to the gym with him?
I try to go to the gym every day because I like to eat. I try to compensate, I give myself the pleasure of life, life is one, why am I going to take away my chicharroncito, my ceviche, juicy, Creole food, I love it. It could be better but it beats me…
Don’t you want to have more children?
We are with Christian between yes and no. I’m already 35 years old and it should be now, but there are things that are being worked on and there are dreams to fulfill. Having a child is too much responsibility and I already have a daughter who, to go out, I have to ask for help, I have far away from my family… when I left my daughter to go to work the first time, I cried the whole way, so it hurts. a lot and now with all the projects we have, I think it’s just there.
Are you going to buy your house?
Yes, I hope so, that is our priority more than getting married. At weddings everyone drinks for free, eats for free and criticizes for free, so I prefer the house.
Are you more romantic?
I like everything, there is no genre that I don’t like, I love huayno, my dad would like it to be folkloric, I love Ayacuchano huayno, my dad made me sing huaynos when I was little. I live a lot of the songs of the past, it represents a lot of my childhood, that’s why I paid tribute to the Castro brothers, also the Creole music, the waltzes. I like all music, cumbia, salsa, even timba because I was in an orchestra with Cubans. Christian is more romantic, he trains with Luis Miguel.
THE COFFEES OF LA CHEVEZ
What do you regret or what would you never do again in your life?
Several things… having believed in lies, being very naive, not sinning again from being a fool.
What was the most embarrassing moment you’ve ever had?
When Níver took me off the stage. She didn’t have much experience, she didn’t know what to do, she was nervous. She told me, come down and she tells me: either you smile or you go back to your town. I returned to the stage and started smiling.
Who wouldn’t you work with?
I could work with everyone, but the only person I feel bad about is Metiche. It would have to be him.
How do you like to be seduced?
Dancing the worm.
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