Ballymaloe Cookery School co-founder Rory O’Connell married his partner Ruaidhrí Carmody at Ballymaloe House Hotel in East Cork on Thursday, October 15, the Irish Examiner reported. The celebrated chef and culinary educator celebrated the milestone surrounded by family, long-time colleagues, and notable figures from the Irish food scene.
Rory O'Connell and Ruaidhrí Carmody Wed at Ballymaloe House
- Rory O’Connell and Ruaidhrí Carmody exchanged vows at the Ballymaloe House Hotel in East Cork on October 15.
- The wedding menu featured a hors d’oeuvre buffet, Ballycotton John Dory, and head chef Dervilla Flynn’s dinner alongside a dessert trolley by pastry chef JR Ryall.
- Prominent culinary figures including Clodagh McKenna, Darina Allen, and Rachel Allen attended the East Cork celebration.
A Family Estate Celebration in East Cork
The wedding took place at the five-star Ballymaloe House Hotel, an estate deeply intertwined with O’Connell’s career. O’Connell established the legendary Ballymaloe Cookery School alongside his sister, Darina Allen, in 1983. He maintains an active teaching schedule at the school to this day, while the hotel itself remains under the ownership of the Allen family.
Following the ceremony, O’Connell shared photographs from the day on Instagram, writing, “One week married. What a day it was.”

Culinary Industry Figures Gather for the Reception
Among the guests in attendance was fellow chef and cookbook author Clodagh McKenna, accompanied by her husband, Harry Herbert. Darina Allen and Rory’s niece-in-law, fellow cookbook author Rachel Allen, also joined the celebrations.
Public figures offered warm wishes online, with singer Imelda May commenting “True love lives” on social media, while Rachel Allen described the event as exceptionally beautiful.
An Estate Menu Led by Head Chef Dervilla Flynn
The reception highlighted the estate’s culinary pedigree. McKenna provided a glimpse of the menu on social media, detailing an initial hors d’oeuvre buffet followed by Ballycotton John Dory as a main course. The meal concluded with a classic Ballymaloe cheese board and a dinner prepared by Ballymaloe House head chef Dervilla Flynn.
The dining experience finished with what McKenna termed a “wedding desert trolley of dreams” crafted by pastry chef JR Ryall. O’Connell, a two-time recipient of Ireland’s Chef of the Year accolade and author of three cookery books, marked the occasion with family and peers before returning to his ongoing work in East Cork.