Because the family is better off, when organizing the wedding, my family spent more money than the groom’s family. From treating guests, sewing wedding dresses for the bride, suits for the groom, even renting ao dai for the husband’s family to giving gifts to guests, my family takes care of it (we held the wedding at the hotel) . After that, the congratulatory money from the guests at the bride’s house, my parents also gave it to me and my wife, but did not receive a single penny in return.
Since I already had a house before I got married, I didn’t have to suffer as a bride. A month, we visit my husband’s parents a few times and I always buy gifts, cakes or give money to my grandparents. So even though I don’t live with my husband’s parents, the relationship between me and my grandparents is still good and harmonious.
The person who makes me tired and frustrated the most is still Phi, my husband. Although he is over 30 years old, he has no will to advance, always relying on his wife’s family. Seeing that he was working in an agency with a salary of less than 8 million/month, I offered to help him find another better job, the salary and benefits for employees were extremely good. But my husband flatly refused with the reason that he did not want to change jobs for fear of having to start over.
Every month, Phi gives me 3 million to take care of food, electricity and water. But that money has nothing to do with spending in the city. I asked him more, he said no, the money has run out or the money has already been deposited. Once, I even overheard my husband telling you: “If a wife is rich, then I’m happy. It’s still best to marry a rich wife.”
A few days ago, my wife and I had an argument once more. Phi not only did not give money to his wife, but when he found out that I was pregnant, he also made an unbelievable request. He told me that I am the only daughter, the baby in my belly is the grandchild of my parents, so grandparents must be the ones to take care of and raise the baby. So money for pregnancy and childbirth, I kept asking at my grandmother’s house. Ask yourself, in this world, is there a man who can utter such irresponsible and unscrupulous statements?
During the argument, I called, cried to tell my father. When my husband heard it, he scolded his wife loudly. 15 minutes following the call, while my husband and I were arguing, my father drove to the house. Phi just opened the door and was scolded by his father-in-law for a gray face: “My daughter is raised and pampered, not for you to scold or hurt her. This is my daughter’s house, if you can’t live, you can do it yourself. move out”.
My husband apologized profusely to his father-in-law, but he firmly kicked him out and forced me to divorce. Now my husband keeps texting, asking to meet to apologize and promise to fix it, but my dad doesn’t trust him anymore. To be honest, I didn’t think things would get this far. I also don’t want a divorce because I love the baby in my belly. What should I do to calm my father’s anger and forgive my husband?
