2023-10-13 15:30:00
In the new war of the sexes, a solution: shamanic coitus. If you have time to spare (allow for a good two to three hours of exercise) and a keen inclination for the supernatural, here is our guide.
Climb to the ceiling without breaking the slats of your bed? It is possible, thanks to the teachings of tantra, a centuries-old spiritual knowledge from India. To avoid any risk in your erotic-philosophical exploration, all in the greatest silence, there are a few tips… So, tantra or not tantra?
Sex is like a big all-you-can-eat buffet, except you always eat the same dish. Fast-fucking, over-dating, pornography… your environment pushes you to make sexuality a standard consumer dish, with its recurring motifs and clichés. Between hyper-sexualization and puritanical taboos, our schizophrenic society creates frustration, even weariness. And yet, other dishes are on the menu, with different approaches to it. Tantra (which means “chain” or “doctrine” in Sanskrit), invites you to adopt conscious sexuality, or rather, to use sexual energy to achieve a new spiritual experience. Nothing to do with the “magical” orgies of Aleister Crowley, however, because the main idea of tantra is to escape from a genito-centered vision: the whole body is eroticizable… even your toes. In short, get rid of the coital impulse discharge and open your energetic wheels wide.
NEO-TANTRA
Learning tantra with a YouTube tutorial would be a bit of a hassle, as there are so many other ways to approach the path. Reading the sutras of the Vijnânabhaïrava tantra – the tantra of knowledge – is a good entry point. This tantra bible written in the 8th century, of Kashmiri Shaivism inspiration, sets out 112 methods of meditation, and touches on themes as eclectic as emptiness, sleep, the practice of mantras or pleasure (kama). 90% of tantric productions in Europe are Westernized and grouped under the term “neo-tantra”.
Appearing during the 1970s in our regions, neo-tantra is a syncretism of original tantra and psycho-corporeal therapies in vogue at the time (bio-energy, rebirth therapy, gestalt therapy, Reichian psychology, etc.).
So here you are with your partner in your living room, and you have some basics of tantra. A single imperative, that of slowness. As Deva Broncy, a recognized teacher who has more than 20 years of experience in the subject, explains to me: “One of the tools that we use a lot is slowness, it allows us to feel the energies, like heat, tingling… It intensifies the experience and allows you to move towards something else. » A preliminary exercise could be gaze meditation, and it consists, as its name suggests, of looking into the whites of the eyes in total silence. Naked or clothed, depending on your privacy levels, try not to blink, and after a while, “distorted vision sets in,” she says. “This allows for a contactless exchange of energy, there is something other than body to body. It’s like bluetooth and it allows you to reach an expanded level of consciousness. »
Second exercise, the caress ritual. “One will caress the other very slowly, always in silence and for at least 20 minutes. Both people are invited to be in a meditation, that is, to really fully feel the sensations by putting all their windows of attention on what is happening. » An effective way according to her to circulate energies, to rebalance them, and to have an increased awareness of the here and now through great sensory acuity. This technique was described poetically in the Vijnânabhaïrava tantra: “Enter into the caress, sweet princess or sweet prince, as one enters a moment of eternity”. Be careful, your kundalini heats up.
FIRE IN THE POND
At that point, you might be tempted to rediscover your reproductive australopithecine reflexes. Stay focused. Always silently and extremely slowly, you can suggest to your partner that you put both of you in a scissors position, without penetration, and meditate on the contact area. “The goal of the maneuver is to breathe together, intensely, in a circular manner to awaken the fire in the pool,” reveals Deva. “If there is penetration, it is done consciously with your partner, in perfect listening. And it has to be done in slow motion. We are looking for light excitement and relaxation. The sexual energy then spreads and expands, this is what we call the valley orgasm. » This state of ultimate relaxation is a first type of tantric orgasm.
“THE HEART IS THEN FILLED WITH LOVE, WE ARE MELTED INTO THE GREAT WHOLE. » – DEVA
By learning to vibrate at the same frequency as the universe, you will be able to achieve total orgasm. Unlike the physiological orgasm which is a pulsation of a few seconds, the total orgasm plunges the entire body and being into an experience of intense pleasure. Deva enthuses: “The heart then fills with love, we are melted into the Great Whole. A couple can achieve this during tantric exercises, with or without penetration. The penetration here is rather energetic.” That’s it, you’re in full Nirvana… And while you and your partner are close to the stars, your neighbors’ sleep will have had no problem. The co-pro trustee will appreciate it.
Par Michael Petkov-Kleiner
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