When there is a mother who always thinks the whole world revolves around the youngest child, what the eldest child does is meaningless.
eh, fried chicken, spaghetti, steak, cake and that. And of course it did not give me any co-living expenses, by default, my sister was responsible for taking care of me just like my mother at home. When he graduated from school, my mother also ran everywhere to apply for a job. The salary is not much, but he always dresses like a rich kid, keeps going to work, even though I have to clean up the dishes.
At first she lived with me like that, but after having a boyfriend, she asked to move out. It calls “merchandise” with her lover from morning to night, and the day off does not let me rest. When I complained, he seemed annoyed, and dared to tell me if I didn’t like it, I would move out myself. There’s no way I’d have to do that, of course. Finally, for the sake of honor, he packed up his things and left.
Salary 7 million/month but it is very wasteful. The soldier’s son calculates the mandarin, what he likes is what he must do. Before living together, I often had to pay for the market, food, and laundry. Even for many months it did not mention the rent, electricity and water bills. I texted to tell my mother, she reproached her: “Can’t you take care of me as an older sister?”.
My monthly income is double that, but I also have a lot of things to take care of, not to mention saving money to prevent illness and accidents. How many years have I tried to manage a temporary life as it is now, if it continues to stick around like that, it will be quite troublesome. He went to work only to cover himself, but never cared to share with her. Sometimes I’m so upset that I don’t understand if he considers me his own blood or not?
When he took his things out to live alone, I breathed a sigh of relief. At least she’ll be responsible for her own life in the future and won’t bother her sister anymore. But it was only a week before I knew I was wrong. My sister’s annoyance is now more than the day before!
It still holds the key to my room, so sometimes when I come home from work, it shows up on my own, without warning nor asking for permission. I reminded him that he wanted to go, but he gave me 1 sentence in advance, but only received an incomprehensible smirk. It rummages through the food in the fridge by itself, taking whatever it wants, which makes me very angry. From a spare toothbrush, a pair of socks, a box of cakes, even a bottle of toilet water, it also took home to use. Convenience as its own!
Although it was annoying, I still ignored it because I thought it was my real sister. However, just reminding him a few sentences, the next day I was the one to blame for him. She must have told her mother, so she called and scolded me, that you calculated with me a dull and ragged broom. Yes, it only takes brand new things that she has not used yet, even the million-dollar perfume bottle she innocently stuffed in her pocket. How can there be anything cheap to throw away like mom said?
Knowing that my mother was biased towards the youngest child, I had to swallow my tears and ignore it. I am not selfish, nor do I want to quarrel with my own family.
But the same thing over and over again drives me crazy. The culmination was yesterday, when I finally couldn’t help but declare that I wanted to break up with my family. The reason why?
After ten years of working, I have touched my dream, which is to buy a house under my own name. Although I only have enough money to pay a part of the house deposit now, and the rest is paid in monthly installments, it is the happiest thing for me. When I held the contract to buy a house firmly in my hand, I dared to call and tell my parents the good news. Dad congratulated me enthusiastically, he even asked his daughter what she liked to buy for the housewarming. As for my mother, the gift she gave me stunned me.
– Why are you so selfish? Why don’t you let me have a house in my name with my sister, but you take the house as your own? Oh my god, if my mother dies later, you will steal everything from me!
– Mom, why do you say that? This is my own property that I have accumulated myself, I do not give you any money. I never asked my parents for money. So what’s wrong with my name?
I was so upset that I choked on my throat, quickly hung up the phone so as not to have to listen to words that hurt myself.
I haven’t contacted anyone in the house for a week. I was also busy cleaning my new house, trying to keep myself from thinking negatively. Unexpectedly, last night, when I was busy cooking, preparing to welcome my friends to celebrate, I saw my mother leading her sister to the door.
– How do you know my home address?
– Your best friend said so. Didn’t you invite your friends to the housewarming party today? Your family is not invited, the daughter is so beautiful. I am ungrateful to my parents, can I live like that?
– Don’t talk like that, Mom. What are you and me doing here?
– Come see the new house, it’s convenient for your sister to live with her so she won’t have to pay rent.
– How are you doing? I don’t agree. Who allowed it to come here? Before, I told her to wait for her to find another place, but she didn’t listen, now she buys a house and wants to come and enjoy it, but then make me spend money to raise it? Long time left!
– What are you talking about? I gave birth to two children, so I have to protect and rely on each other, dare to chase my brother away like that? I’m your mother, but I don’t listen to you?
– I’ve been holding on too long before. From now on, that’s not the case! It’s always only him in my eyes, I don’t consider you as my biological child? If you lack money to ask for a loan, your mother will scold you, if it plays with debt, your mother will force you to carry it. Why should I take care of it? It also has full limbs, but no disease. Mom, go home, I have the right to decide.
And so I got a slap, along with the closing sentence never to call my mother again. After 1 night, my cheeks still hurt, but in my heart I felt very relieved. I didn’t do anything wrong, my mother has treated me unfairly for so many years…