After the death of her adoptive parents, the woman found out that she was not her own. (Picture / Recap from Good-looking Video)
It must be hard to accept that you are not related by blood to your parents. A woman in Qingdao, China, after her parents passed away, found an adoption certificate while sorting out the relics. She was shocked by her own life experience and decided to look for her biological parents. Her strong optimism, desire and sensitivity to family affection are very touching.
Ryo Takeuchi, a Japanese documentary director living in Nanjing, launched a new program“Can You Pat Me”the protagonist of the first episode is a post-95 girl who is looking for relatives. She is a graduate student majoring in journalism and communication at Communication University of China. She doesn’t know her birthday. Her adoptive father has been hiding her life experience for more than 10 years. , her adoptive father is close to 50 years old. She doubted and raised questions, “My birthday is on my ID card, but the two dates my parents gave me don’t match at all, so I can’t get the real information anymore.” When her parents died, she found her adoption certificate in the relics of her parents and learned the truth from her relatives.
When her adoptive parents passed away, the girl was only in her first year of high school, and she started living alone at a young age. She started working part-time to pay off her student loans, earn tuition and living expenses, and spend Chinese New Year with a group of people on Xiaohongshu at a party hall. , when she missed her adoptive parents, she would go to the store to eat a bowl of wontons, “My dad used to make them often, and I like his wontons the most.” In fact, she just wanted to know her own birthday, and she didn’t want to see her biological parents. “Whether I was lost or abducted, it is impossible for me to establish any relationship with my biological parents.” The parents had no illusions, and they themselves felt that they would not welcome her.
After thinking about it, the woman decided to go to the police station to find her biological parents, and wanted to know her birth date. However, in the end, she was still not mentally prepared to face all this, and she didn’t step into the police station, “Forget it, it’s so embarrassing to ask, you don’t know how to speak.” When she felt helpless, she would go to the beach to relax , she scattered the ashes of her adoptive parents in this sea.
Director Ryo Takeuchi said that he had been a documentary director for 20 years, but he had never heard of such an experience. He thought it was very special, and he didn’t know how to react. He only hoped that the woman could find her “home” in the end.
After the news was exposed, it attracted heated discussions among netizens, “Actually, I think I can find my biological parents, otherwise she is really alone in this world. She is really lonely, and her adoptive parents have passed away, so go to meet her biological parents.” It doesn’t matter if I admit it.”, “It’s really strong, but it’s more helpless. Seeing this girl is so heartbreaking, I burst into tears, and I am willing to help her.”, “On the other hand, how lucky she is, Only by having good adoptive parents can she be guaranteed a good education to be admitted to a communication university, have a degree and have a job in the future, and can guarantee her own life.”