2023-09-16 00:43:54
You answered well to the one who wondered about the merits of undergoing new surgery on her left breast to remove a prosthesis to which she is not getting used to and replace it with fat taken from her abdomen. According to her, it would make it easier for her to accept her new body. Which I doubt.
Why does she refuse to go to therapy to accept herself as she has become, since her partner offers it to her? She’s so lucky to be with an open man like that, she shouldn’t hesitate for a second. You did not give him your opinion on the interest of carrying out a second reconstruction and that was wise, because I have to say that the less we play in a wound which was once cancerous, the less chance we have of waking up the beast.
I chose total ablation without any reconstruction. It’s been eight years now and I’m still doing well. You will tell me that since I did not have a man in my life at the time of my cancer diagnosis, it was an easy decision to make. But the fact remains that I’m the one looking in the mirror morning and night and it took me a while to accept my new appearance. I didn’t go to therapy, even though I thought about it, and maybe I would have gotten back on my feet even quicker if I had submitted to it.
Anonymous
As I am not a doctor, I would never venture to give advice of a medical nature since I do not have the skills, even though the benefits of therapy are known to everyone.
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