The field is the space where current events take place and future ones are formed.
Formulations affect future events, although they arise in connection with the past.
Past events are present in the field only as results.
This is very important to understand so as not to get stuck in the past and not turn the present into endless memories.
It is possible to influence the results of the past by acting in the present.
But it is important to complement the results of the past, respecting these results.
Formulations affect field processes in two ways:
1) they formulate the desired status, that is, the goal,
2) they formulate the status quo, that is, the current situation.
Why did I write that the wording affects a person’s actions only indirectly?
Because you can proclaim your goals as much as you like, but the real goals will depend only on your inclinations, on where you are drawn.
And you can formulate your status quo as much as you like, it will depend on your real possibilities, and not on your formulations.
This is “indirectly”. Directly wording does not affect actions.
Why did I write that wording affects events, including external events?
When we say that something has happened to us, it means that we are focused on a specific event. At the same time, many other events happened around us, but this is all “not with us”, because it did not touch our consciousness, we did not notice it or noticed it in passing.
“I met a beautiful girl,” says the man, whose focus is on a particular female figure.
In addition to him, this girl was met by many more men and women, some in the same place, and he himself met many, but it was not a “meeting”, it was not an event marked in the mind as important. While our hero met that girl, those around him were experiencing something of their own. And the girl herself could not meet him at all, he could remain a blind spot for her or flashed in the crowd.
And when formulating something, we focus on a specific event or thing and build connections with it, position ourselves in relation to it.
Let’s imagine that the wording of a man contains a big bug.
For example, Upstart. Upstarts always exaggerate their successes.
“A beauty stared at me.”
If the beauty really stared, and even came up later, then the guy is not Upstart.
But if the Upstart guy, the beauty maximum answered him at his gaze, such a wording will not bring him anything good, he will hang in useless expectations of an attack or merge, trying to explain to the Poor that he is not against her attacks. And it will be a sad event or even a chain of events.
Boundary wording: “I saw a pretty girl.”
In this formulation, there is a motivation to engage in one’s image and the resource of love. And this is an auspicious event, albeit a very small one, not worthy of being called an event.
And here is the wording of the Shturman.
“I met the girl of my dreams.”
If this wording is about an unfamiliar girl and seriously, then this is a very big Navigator. If this is a retrospective about a meeting with his own wife, then this is not Navigator at all.
Bug Navigator in the wording will trigger the same unpleasant events as in the first case, only Navigator, unlike that Upstart, will attack and implement the plan of the Winner, and not Treasures like Upstart.
That is, in any formulation of what is happening there is a designation of the initial status and the desired one, and this literally attracts events in the field.
The attraction of events is a very complex topic. We barely touch it.
Events can be pulled into the field in three main ways:
1) creating an event corridor,
2) starting a chain of reactions,
3) building a pyramid of reactions and events.
What does it all mean?
An event corridor is how you isolate an event from the stream of reality, how you consciously and unconsciously seek and create conditions for events. What happens is directly affected by our expectations.
Only contrary to the promises of esoteric jokers, most often not the events that you would like to attract are attracted. And the less modest your desires, the greater the difference between the desired and the actual.
Modest desires within the boundaries, this is all that is available to you and everything that is in the nearest development zone, if you are ready to put in the effort. This is modest and it is really to attract, if you pull yourself up.
And if you want to attract something alien and inaccessible, a shish or even trouble will be attracted. And this is not a mystical retribution, but a physical law. As if you decide to take a jar of jam from a too high shelf, which is too big, and it would fall on your head, or you would jump and fall out of your chair.
“Within” means you can reach out, grab and hold, and then use it again.
By directing focus, setting expectations, directing efforts, we attract events.
Most of the time this happens unconsciously. We deliberately sought one thing, but another was attracted, sometimes not worse, if the expectations and efforts were within the limits.
The chain of reactions is how you react to the approach of an event and its harbingers.
Often an event is already approaching, but a chain of wrong reactions prevents a good event from attracting or even attracts a bad one.
The simplest example is when you are shattered by expectations in the crown and behave in such a way that trouble happens. You seemed to be almost at the goal, but lost everything at the last moment.
Conversely, if you are humble, patient, hardworking, and grateful, your efforts bring a happy event closer, sometimes even better than you hoped, sometimes in a different area, because all areas are connected.
Our formulations are directly related to the chain of reactions. Formulations are reactions.
The third way is a pyramid of events and reactions.
It is a synthesis of what events you attract and how you react to them, resulting in a pyramid, reactions triggering new events, and events triggering new reactions. Such a pyramid gradually moves you to a completely different space, where happy events and successful acquaintances take place.
In success stories, such pyramids are easy to trace after the fact. We will deal with this shortly.
And here the wording also plays a very important role.
That is, your formulations are a selection of the material from which events will be formed.
Only a part of the formulations affects your actions, but each formulation affects the events, favorably or unfavorably.
That is why you need to be very careful about how you formulate your thoughts about yourself, about loved ones, about your life and about life in general. You can’t talk about what comes into your head if all sorts of nonsense comes up. What is especially important is what you say out loud, especially publicly, but inner speech, everything that you formulate “for yourself” also matters.
In those letters where we tried to consider this, there are many examples of this.
In the last letter the girl describes the guy as a rather miserable and dependent being in a state of love, and describes her love as the greed of a child who has taken away a toy.
How does this affect future events in her field? A vacuum will form around her, her attractiveness will be negative, her significance for the guy will decrease below zero.
Here is an approximate picture of her immediate future in love, and the further future will depend on her new formulations.
Do you know where this picture comes from?
With the installation that love makes a person miserable and dependent, and dislike gives power, she has a negative charm and a set of the most incorrect reactions, as well as an unconscious selection of bad events and building a pyramid down. The pyramid down is a pit, if you visualize it.
She has no respect for the guy, no lively sympathy, instead of an adequate assessment of the past – a search of the box, how she mocked him, so the dynamics will be negative, and she is already bad.
To reverse such dynamics, a radical change of attitude is needed, a 180 turn.
The author does not yet have such a potential.
The author’s external events may be worse. She is too absorbed in unhappy love, so there may be problems with her studies, with her parents, with those around her. Let’s hope that everything is fine with health, but stress and sudden weight loss are harmful even to young people. In general, it is harmful to suffer heart-rendingly. It is better not to hang in stress, quickly change something in yourself and in your lifestyle in a positive way. And the positive side is simple and universal: more work, modesty, gratitude to parents, helping people, love for life, readiness for change. This is where we need to change.
Now let’s see yesterday’s author whose wording is not as bad as that of today’s author, but not as good as we would like.
Here, too, a box: how they loved him, they ran, but he behaved badly.
This is not at all such a casket as that of today’s author. Describe the difference yourself.
But also a box.
He does not try to draw the girl’s love beautifully, does not try to describe his gratitude and respect, he puts himself in the center and describes how handsome he is, and she is a fool in love.
This Upstart and this cap on her cost him dearly.
He is an upstart in the main wording, in life he clearly behaves much more adequately and modestly, and if you read the description of his actions, you will be convinced of this. Explain in the comments.
But what do bad wording do with it?
They turn his focus in the wrong direction and form a corridor for future bad events.
First, it staggers and hides. This is the result of a misjudgment and a misplaced attitude.
Secondly, he feels angry at her, how she lied to him and her husband, pretended to be in love, but she was not like that. Or was? And here it is again shaken in the other direction.
As a result, he has neither strength, nor stability, nor charm.
Having met him, she will see in his eyes anger at herself, all those rolling pins and claims with which he reduced his significance. And at the same time, she will see his self-pity and guilt, and these are also very bad reactions, not to mention how contradictory it all is.
Look, he seems to understand that he lost it because of the lack of steps and balls and the enumeration of the rolling pins, which he took for spades, but he continues to formulate in such a way that with any communication of steps there will be a shortage further, and too many rolling pins, and all chances are he misses.
What should be its correct wording?
He had to describe the image of the beautiful girl he loves.
Complain that he fought badly for his love and badly reflected love.
To suggest that she wouldn’t want to leave her husband anyway.
To agree that a child common with her husband is really important and she is right.
This would not only give him stability, real, without the crown and star, but would also create magnetism for him. The magnetism of your figure has the power of attraction.
For the sake of this and that it is worth behaving nobly. So that your figure does not look like manure.
In the case of the author, this would affect the girl in the most direct way.
Hearing about him from acquaintances, meeting him at work, communicating with him on any occasion, the girl would feel the return of feelings and the growth of his significance.
He would have had the opportunity to develop those relationships.
Not to mention that in such a good state he could start a new story with a free woman. He would have a choice.
But for this you need to have good settings, and not awry.
With his formulations, the dynamics can only get worse.
Friends, do you understand something in this complex topic?
Can you give examples of the influence of wording on events?