I am the eldest sister in the family, after me I have 2 younger siblings, chicken eggs, duck eggs, my 13-year-old brother is in 7th grade, and the youngest has just entered 3rd grade, so when I learned that I had failed university, I decided to stay in college. family participates in the field with their parents. Because I don’t want to put all the burden of rice, clothes, money on the thin shoulders of my mother and the daily worries are heavy in the footsteps of my father, because he is the breadwinner of the whole family.
With me helping with the farm work, my father had time to cut down the bamboos behind the garden to knit baskets, pots, and blankets for my mother to sell around the neighborhood to earn extra income, so my family life was also somewhat comfortable. After working as a farmer with my parents for 2 years, I was fortunate to be on the recruitment list of an export garment enterprise in the South.
My parents encouraged me to go on the road with peace of mind, because my parents are healthy, my two younger brothers are obedient, obedient to their parents, study hard and tell each other to do housework to help their parents. Growing up in a poor country, I understand the difficult life of my family, so I have a sense of saving money as soon as I receive my first salary.
So after 3 years of actively contributing to the business, plus salary and bonus and overtime, I also have a decent balance at the bank. I also spend an income to send back to help my parents take care of my two younger siblings.
Then I found my lover. That was the occasion when I was sent by the factory to take a skill test in the province. Nguyen – the guy who won the first prize in the contest made my heart melt when I knew Nguyen was a countryman and like me, Nguyen confided that he “died me at first sight”!
Nguyen is 26 years old, is a worker of an industrial garment factory located not far from where I work, so my meeting and understanding went smoothly and smoothly.
Then, after 2 years, we returned to the same house with a warm and happy wedding with enough parents, relatives and friends on both sides. Not having enough conditions to have our own house, Nguyen and I agreed to rent a self-contained motel room that was convenient for eating and living and trying to be frugal, saving up to buy a small piece of land so that the couple could settle down and settle down and welcome members. it’s not too late yet.
Knowing that my husband is not involved in drinking and gambling, I put all my savings that I have earned so far plus the wedding bonus to put Nguyen in the bank’s name, and the money Nguyen accumulated during his life. single.
Not only that to make my dream come true, I also received more sewing and processing for market, standing on the machine for you when needed to have money to send Nguyen to save. Not yet happy when calculating the balance in the promised book nearly enough for a piece of land for the couple to separate, suddenly last night Nguyen lost his home and whispered that I had some private capital to lend him. pay the debt lest you not be at peace with the creditor!
So the money in the savings book gradually dried up, Nguyen had to borrow from friends in the factory, then also borrow outside at exorbitant interest rates…
It turns out that all the time Nguyen used overtime and overtime to earn money to buy land to build a house, but went early to stay late at night, with cats and chickens with beer shop girls. I still love my husband, what should I do to save him as well as save my new marriage?