Parenting Counseling for Olympic Champion Ki Bo-bae: Understanding Achievement and Stress

2024-03-26 07:55:46

Money Today Reporter Eun Lee | 2024.03.26 16:55

Olympic archery gold medalist Ki Bo-bae./Photo = Channel A ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ preview video Olympic archery gold medalist Ki Bo-bae’s husband, Seong Min-soo, shows concern over his wife who appears to be coercive towards their daughter. On the Channel A entertainment program ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’, which airs on the 26th, Ki Bo-bae and Seong Min-soo appear and meet Dr. Oh Eun-young, a psychiatrist.
/Photo=Channel A In the preview video broadcast of ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’, husband Seong Min-soo reveals that his wife Ki Bo-bae has a coercive side towards their daughter. When his daughter gets bored with what she is doing, he suggests, “Then let’s try something else,” while his wife, Ki Bo-bae, says, “‘If you quit here, the other kids will get ahead, but you are in that position. If you don’t do this, you are a loser and a loser. “They even use the expression,” he says.

He continued, “I wanted to ask how I could say such harsh words to a child who doesn’t even understand what it means to be a loser or a loser, but I didn’t want to make the situation worse, so I held back.” At the same time, he confesses, “I am a devout Christian, but I relieve my frustration by listening to the words of Venerable Beopryun.”

Dr. Eun-young Oh revealed some of the results of Ki Bo-bae’s MMPI (Multi-faceted Personality Inventory) that was previously tested and analyzed that “Ki Bo-bae is a very practical and achievement-oriented person.” She goes on to caution, “If you treat your child with an achievement orientation, they may not even want to start because they feel they can’t stop even if they want to.”
/Photo=Channel A In the video released following ‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’, Ki Bo-bae sets a 5-minute timer during play time with his daughter, and while helping his child with his homework, if the child writes a wrong answer, he erases it with an eraser. It appears that the student is asked to write down the correct answer. In response to this, her husband Seong Min-su takes her daughter’s side, saying, “The child must be sick of it. There is nothing she can do as she wants since her mother interferes in everything,” but Ki Bo-bae said, “You must definitely learn as you learn.” Confront it.

Dr. Oh Eun-young points out, “Mother Ki Bo-bae only plays with her daughter for a short period of time, but she is a timer mother who even sets the timer. If she keeps setting the timer, the child may develop an obsession with time.” She also warns, “If a mother herself erases and corrects her child’s incorrect answers, she may end up fearing her failure.”

Dr. Oh Eun-yeong wonders why Ki Bo-bae has such a parenting attitude, and her husband, Seong Min-su, says, “Life at the Taereung Training Center where my wife trained is like going to a military training center for over 10 years. My wife’s gums are all saggy due to stress.” “I can sit down,” he said, conveying the weight of representing the national team that his wife must have felt.

Ki Bo-bae then confessed, “I grew up in a harsh environment due to poverty when I was young. My parents supported my career as an athlete even if it meant taking on debt, but I wanted to succeed as soon as possible and escape the terrible poverty.”

He sheds tears and feels sad as he remembers the sacrifice of his mother, who did not abandon her children and lived a terrible life even though she argued with his father every day to the point where the phone and rice cooker were not in good condition due to financial problems.

Additionally, Dr. Oh Eun-young wondered why Ki Bo-bae, who had been with the company for 27 years, suddenly decided to retire, and Ki Bo-bae hesitated for a while, saying, “It’s something I really didn’t want to say,” and everyone who heard it couldn’t help but feel sad, drawing attention. .

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