Saving Our Marriage: How Génesis Tapia and Kike Márquez Overcame Infidelity and Rediscovered Love

2023-09-30 23:50:38

Génesis Tapia and her husband Kike Márquez were on the verge of divorcing because of a man and, although this person’s evil intention put their marriage at risk, they recognize that this evil helped them save their family, since they were already carrying a strong crisis.

Genesis, Kike, why did you really announce your separation?

K: My wife believed that there was infidelity, but since I had nothing to fear, my conscience was clear. In the end, the truth came out.

G: Whoever was behind all this was a man. Kike received a message on his cell phone that said: ‘Hello, my love.’ There was no conversation, but I pretended to be him to find out how far he had gone with this supposed girl.

Is the man who made you believe Kike’s alleged infidelity and tried to destroy your marriage your ex-partner and father of your daughter?

G: I don’t want to confirm it because I have my 10-year-old daughter, but this person’s night is coming. She is someone who lives full of hatred and resentment, but God is so wonderful that the work of the devil always ends up working for good when you are with the Almighty.

Because you said so?

G: Because my relationship with Kike had already cooled after 7 years. My marriage was no longer the same. That passion and flame was no longer there.

CRISIS.

In other words, Kike’s alleged infidelity was only going to be the straw that broke the camel’s back…

G: Yes. We were in a somewhat complicated crisis, we are both good parents, he is a wonderful man, but we had made being parents a priority and we forgot about ourselves. I no longer saw that Kike that I fell in love with, I felt bored and so did he.

Do you feel that your relationship is different after the crisis?

G: Yes. Kike has started to have behaviors that I had fallen in love with and vice versa. I have returned to value it and understand it more. The problem they wanted to cause us brought back all the love I feel for him, so I thank this person who wanted to hurt us. If that didn’t happen, my marriage was going to end because it was getting really cold.

K: The everyday routine led us to fall into that (crisis), there came a time when I felt bored and so did she.

Have they reached any agreement?

G: We have apologized for not valuing ourselves, we had forgotten to give each other gestures, now we have made promises to each other and we are keeping them.

K: We made a schedule, one weekend we went out with the children and the other we went alone.

‘I LOVE YOU’.

You have managed to save your marriage, but why do you think there are so many separations today?

G: Because ‘I love you’ is an emotion, but the real ‘I love you’ is a decision. One decides to love until the last of your days. There are always problems, they will never be absent, but you decide to love and respect them.

Do you feel that what happened with you is what is happening with the recent separation of Romina Gachoy and Jean Paul Santa María?

G: I heard that they were going to have therapy, but I advise them to seek God. They have a very beautiful family, they have managed to heal the hearts of two very hurt children, so I hope that God allows that marriage to be saved.

In the case of Romina and Jean Paul there was no infidelity, but there are other known cases where there was. Would they forgive a betrayal?

G: No. Infidelity, physical or psychological violence is something that should not be allowed or forgiven.

K: No. I know the values that my wife has, and it wouldn’t cross my mind to put my family at risk, I wouldn’t do that for the world.

By the way, Christian Domínguez acknowledged that he had been unfaithful in the past because he didn’t know how to say no to ‘temptations’. What do you think of his response?

G: It seems like an extremely immature expression to me because the immature man is the one who does not value the woman next to him nor does he have the ability to say no.

There are always temptations, both for men and women. Have you ever fallen into any temptation?

G: What happens is that Kike, beyond my husband, is my friend. I really like older and intelligent men. In my field (law career) there are judges, lawyers and people who are very intellectual academically speaking and who awaken admiration in me. That’s where I get invitations and everything. If I told you who… you would die, but the good thing is that they are respectful, they don’t demand from you and they understand what a yes or no is.

How do you respond when you receive these invitations?

G: I have it clear. I kill myself studying not because I have the mandate to get involved with a magistrate, but because I know where I am going to be in a few years. Beyond the temptations that always exist, I am a beautiful woman… I am clear about it and my family will not change it for anything.

K: This world is full of temptations. One is flesh and blood. The flesh is weak, but when something tugs at my eye, I automatically think of my wife.

Kike, do you want to mark ‘territory’ with Genesis?

K: I read your messages, I start looking and I see the invitations they send you, but it’s normal because my wife is a beautiful woman. I don’t ‘patch’ them, but when I see that it is too intense to invite her out of it… then I do block them. I fear nothing because I know that my wife knows that family is not a game and marriage is a commitment.

G: I don’t block when they text my husband, but when I see that his profile photo is not his face, but his buttocks, I do block them. I’m not jealous, nor am I one to call him when he goes out or ask for his location.

By the way, with the crisis they went through, did they also neglect their intimate relationship?

G: A lot… and I am extremely flirtatious. I like the theme of sensuality, but I had lost motivation. Before we went to nice hotels and had a wonderful time, but we had stopped doing that.

However, they have already overcome the relationship crisis and I imagine that they have already resumed their private conceit….

G: Yes. I dug up all my lingerie because they were already under lock and key. They have seen the light again. I know what he likes and he likes me. The important thing now is to fall in love more than we already are.

K: I know she likes trips and hotel getaways, so I’m looking to surprise her. I am the one who always takes the initiative.