I thought my husband was sincere, I also loved him because he wanted to go out with his wife but couldn’t. (Illustration)
I plan to go back to my hometown with my husband and two children a few days before Tet, it’s a pleasure to have my husband’s support and excitement. He also told me to try to buy many gifts for grandparents, for many years there has not been a full time when the whole family returns to their hometown because they are all busy, some years the children get sick… This year, everything seems to be going very smoothly. .
Being given money by my husband to buy gifts, and thoughtfully ordering a car, I’m glad to receive this, making me more confident to try harder in my marriage. In the past year, I feel depressed because my husband is not interested, he rarely gives money to his wife to take care of the children, and is very often away from home, keeps saying that he has to go away for a few days to have a job, But what I don’t know at all.
Many times with frank and angry comments to my husband, but I did not see him change anything, I did not care where he wanted to go, do whatever he wanted. My husband is so heartless, I have to focus on work and raise children well. At the end of the year being pampered like that, I forgot all the memories of the past year, what I am most happy about is that my husband has changed his character and knows how to share his hardships with his wife.
The plan to return to my hometown has been set for a few weekends, but my husband has an unexpected job that makes me feel disappointed. When I heard this news, I was sad and wanted to cry, I bragged that the whole family went together, so my biological parents were very happy, and they were also eagerly waiting to meet their son-in-law. For more than a year, my husband has not returned to his wife’s hometown, every time he intends to return, he has a busy job.
My husband was also very sad, he told me to go with the children according to the plan, will try to ask the bosses at the company for permission to take a few days off, if possible, he will go with his wife and children. Seeing that my wife was not happy, my husband consoled me: “The children and grandparents are looking forward to meeting each other, you keep trying to take the children away, I can arrange the work to come back, if not, I can’t do it. Don’t be sad. After Tet, when I have free time, I will go with you and the children to my hometown to play later.”
I thought my husband was sincere, I also loved him because he wanted to go out with his wife but couldn’t. Unexpectedly, it was a sham, a perfect plan to give my husband peace of mind to do something with someone else. With my own eyes, I read a message from my husband to his mistress: “I have arranged for my wife and children to return to my hometown for a few days and book plane tickets and luxury hotels for the two of us. Your money is also right. no matter what, the two of us are free to enjoy a sweet vacation together.”
I was shocked, could not believe what I had read, my husband may not care about his wife and children, but he had an outsider that was unexpected. There is sufficient evidence, my husband cannot deny it, he admits this but does not show any remorse and challenges his wife: “I have people outside, just playing around, someone sharing public pressure It’s just work and life. You know it’s fine, accept it or not, it’s up to you.”
My husband secretly had an affair and also arranged for his wife and children to go back to his hometown to go out with his girlfriend, I can’t accept a fake husband like that. I want a divorce, but I love my two young children who suffer a lot if their parents break up. What should I do now, should I break up or find a way to keep the father for the children?