The Struggles of a Wife Facing Family Pressure: A Story of Motherhood and In-Laws

2023-10-06 09:24:43

After the wife gave birth to a daughter, she no longer planned to have children, so her mother-in-law told her to let her ex-wife with her son come in again. (Image/Pexels)

A wife said that after five years of marriage, even though she had a daughter, her mother-in-law still told her that if she did not plan to have another child, she would let her ex-daughter-in-law with her son come in again. Unexpectedly, the woman actually took her son home for a barbecue during the Mid-Autumn Festival, and told her mother-in-law that the child wanted to “recognize his ancestors.” Because her husband was extremely calm at the moment, she, as the current wife, was both chilled and shocked. “What did I do wrong? To let my daughter and I be ruined by you like this.”

The wife posted an article on “Anonymous Commune” and pointed out that because her husband’s ex-wife divorced 7 years ago and took away a son, she would ask for a fixed monthly support of 20,000 yuan. Therefore, as the successor wife, in order to reduce the pressure on each other’s daily life, she made a divorce before marriage. She and her husband reached a consensus that they would only have one child, so they currently have a daughter.

However, the wife was later repeatedly asked by her mother-in-law, “Do you really not plan to have another child?” After learning about the couple’s consensus, the mother-in-law threatened that if she did not give birth, she would have to divorce as soon as possible so that her ex-daughter-in-law could come in again. Give birth to a son in the family. The wife thought it was just a joke at first, but her mother-in-law sent her ex-daughter-in-law and her son home for a barbecue during the Mid-Autumn Festival. The woman emphasized that she was single again and that this trip was just to let her children “recognize their ancestors and return to the family line.”

The original PO was shocked by what he saw during the Mid-Autumn Festival and felt that he had been abused by his in-laws. (Picture/reproduced from Anonymous Commune)

The wife was very shocked by this. When she saw her husband looking calm, and her sister-in-law and mother-in-law holding her ex-daughter-in-law’s son, talking and laughing, she couldn’t help but suspect that her husband’s family had already known that the woman would come that day. “My daughter and I are the only ones who are like outsiders. This meal My heart goes cold after eating.”

Although the husband later explained that the mother-in-law sent the grandson home for the holidays because she missed her grandson, and hoped to gain the wife’s understanding, his words failed to dispel her doubts. She believed that the mother-in-law was clearly trying to embarrass others by letting her former daughter-in-law come to the house. , “What on earth did I do wrong to let my daughter and I be abused like this? And after your mother said those things to me, even someone (ex-daughter-in-law) showed up at home, what do I think? ?」

As soon as the post came out, it sparked heated discussions. Netizens said, “It’s patriarchal thinking again! I don’t respect you so much, so I just divorced my daughter.” You get 20,000 yuan in monthly support.” “Your husband has a big problem.” “Since you are going to have a baby, why don’t your mother-in-law have another child?” “If your mother-in-law doesn’t respect you so much, you really don’t need to respect her. If you don’t express your position this time, she will get worse in the future.”

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