Understanding and Addressing School Bullying: Stories of Victims and the Importance of Empathy

2023-10-29 04:10:23

My daughter was bullied in high school. (Schematic diagram/PIXABAY)

School bullying and exclusion are endless. A mother said heartbrokenly that her daughter was laughed at as a poor beggar for wearing off-brand sneakers and could not afford an iPhone. Some people even told her in front of her, “Don’t have children if you are poor and have no money.” She was quite shocked. .

A mother cried in “Anonymous Commune” and told that her daughter in high school was good friends with the class monitor. As for classmate A and several of her classmates, they were also very good friends with the class monitor. However, because they all ranked in the top grades, her daughter ranked in the bottom, so the classmate A has always wanted to kick his daughter out of the small group; for the squad leader’s birthday, his daughter used the pocket money he saved to buy a bracelet. Classmate A spent money on cakes, gave gold necklaces, and privately invited the squad leader to a KTV to celebrate his birthday. The result is unknown. What are you spreading rumors about? The class monitor ignored her daughter the next day.

The mother revealed that her daughter secretly cried for several days without saying anything. It was not until she saw that her daughter’s textbook was scribbled and some abusive words were written on it, that she found out about it after being pressed. “I saw the scrawled words in the textbook. Poor, beggar, slut, bitch, my heart aches. I have two children as a single parent. I have always believed that even if I am not rich but have enough food and clothing, I will definitely buy the things my children need. They are also very well-behaved and sensible. I never thought that I would be punished for this. Bully.”

The mother mentioned asking the teacher to deal with it, but no one acknowledged it. One of the classmates said when leaving the office, “Don’t have children if you are poor and have no money.” This shocked her. The mother said sadly, “How could I have known when I gave birth to a child that my husband would pass away unexpectedly and the company would be forced to close down later? How did such superficial and bad remarks like sarcastic remarks come from just looking at the surface? Moreover, What does it mean to be rich? If you have money, you can look at people with your nostrils? Are you laughing at my daughter for wearing brand-name sneakers, and are you laughing at my daughter who cannot afford an iPhone and is a poor beggar? When you are only in high school, you use money to measure people’s value and exclude them. I want to ask about money Did they earn it?”

Her mother said that her classmate’s parents had high-level intellectuals and a father with tattoos. In the end, only the father with tattoos apologized to her. How could she have expected that classmate B was kicked out of the small group because she lied that her father was in college? I work in the company and actually set up a stall in the market, but classmate B chose to take it out on her daughter. By taking the lead in bullying her daughter, she wanted to return to the small group. How can so many things happen after just over a year of high school? It’s very tiring, not to mention my daughter.

As soon as the post came out, it sparked a discussion, with netizens leaving messages such as “Change school,” “Values ​​are all deviated,” and “You should educate your children on values. It’s good to leave small groups that are deviant, and don’t let that kind of person affect you. Mood”, “The deviation in the concept of money is too serious. In fact, it would be better for your daughter not to be in that small group. This kind of thing cannot be regarded as a friend.”

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