Coming forward after a sexual assault isn’t always easy, and for many survivors, finding where to turn for help can be equally challenging. Across Hawaii, specialized support resources remain available to individuals whether an incident occurred on a college campus or elsewhere, according to local advocates.
For sexual assault survivor Julia Hawthorne, the trauma of an assault last summer in her hometown left lasting emotional, mental, and physical consequences. Speaking about her experience, Hawthorne described the toll it took, stating, “It made me mentally, spiritually and physically traumatized.”
Overcoming Fear and the Barriers to Speaking Out
While acknowledging that assistance programs exist, Hawthorne pointed out that the fear of coming forward often prevents survivors from sharing their stories. She noted that individuals frequently worry about how disclosure might affect them, explaining, “That’s why women don’t like talking because it is so fearful, and you do have situations of it being weaponized against you, used against you.”
Advocates emphasize that survivors do not have to navigate the healing process alone and point out that seeking support does not require filing a police report. Many universities also provide information regarding sexual assault prevention, reporting options, and support services directly on their official websites.
Support Services at Kapiolani Medical Center
For those seeking professional assistance, the Sex Abuse Treatment Center (SATC) at Kapiolani Medical Center provides comprehensive services to individuals who have experienced sexual abuse or assault.
Lynn Costales with SATC noted that help is accessible regardless of when an incident took place or whether a survivor decides to involve law enforcement. “It doesn’t matter when the sex assault occurred, if it happened yesterday or if it happened a few years ago, we will see that individual,” Costales said.
The facility offers a wide array of care options, including medical treatment, crisis counseling, a 24-hour hotline, and long-term therapy. Costales reiterated this commitment, stating, “All of our services are available to them, which is anything from medical treatment to crisis counseling to our 24-hour hotline to long-term therapy. You can get all those services here at SATC, regardless of whether you want to report or not.”
Community Healing and Future Spaces
Beyond clinical and medical care, Hawthorne’s healing journey has involved connecting with others who share similar experiences. She expressed a desire for schools and local communities to establish more welcoming environments where survivors can speak freely without judgment.
“I wish there would be more women circles in schools, maybe like healing circles,” Hawthorne said. “Something that just makes people connected and comfortable to share about their own experiences.”
Advocates continue to reinforce the message that help remains accessible across Hawaii regardless of the location of the assault or the time that has elapsed, highlighting that seeking support without immediate reporting can serve as a vital initial step toward recovery.
