Previously, she was a single mother with two children. “Zara Kasingini” Post a boiling message Posted on a personal Facebook page, being scolded, neglecting children, ready to fight back. Life doesn’t have a husband. not sitting comfortably then the money floats Single moms do everything. until many people are shocked about what happened Recently, I had the opportunity to meet Sara at the Grand Opening. Opened a comprehensive plastic surgery and beauty clinic PRIMYA PRIME MEDICAL CENTER.
Ask about the issues that we post. Was it a matter of neglecting the child?
Not a netizen If it’s a netizen, don’t take it as an issue. because of the hundreds of thousands of parents He might not really know us. Maybe judge us by the news This Sara did not take into account. If not very rude But if we are referring to our parents or our children, this is not okay, but if we are racing, we can cope with it. The part posted is a quote from a friend. When I listened to it, I felt that I was emotional. That hey…he is our friend. Why are you talking to us like this? There was a quarrel with a friend. But it’s cleared. When he said we went up, he immediately went down, and he said that he didn’t say that. But we told him that we
How does it affect your mind? Even have to post?
Just like that day, he went to a birthday party. he drank too He came and told us that we were neglecting our children. So I asked why he said that. He said he was worried about us. that outsiders see us within seconds As he saw, he would judge us within minutes. if that event Someone else looks in. They may see that we are neglecting our children. But then we didn’t listen well. Why do you think that? The point is that we are at the dining table with Maxwell. Then he told us to read the menu for a bit. He can’t read. That’s all. That friend said that we which we were told that we didn’t care about other people Somehow, others judged us for a few seconds. But this is our friend? Asked if this person was close or not. Close to each other, which he said that he didn’t say that. He just looked at other people to come to us. But we listened and did not feel satisfied.
is we are mothers what happened when everyone will blame mom It’s normal. But we feel that mom is not super human. not super hero We are just a woman with a soul and we do a lot of work in one day. Children need to be raised, work has to be done, money has to be earned, we speak directly to our friends. that it is still us? At his age, Maxwell was not the age to read. He had just learned to read words. The food menu is a long sentence. The child can’t read every word, so he’ll let his mother read what’s on the menu. That is, the child is not developing slowly or has problems. If there is a problem, the teacher will inform Or go to see a doctor and tell them that the younger brother refuses to write or read. But our children are normal So you will come to speak or judge us within 5 seconds or know what you are studying. If someone else said it, we wouldn’t care. But when we are friends, we are not okay, we explain each other, but in the end we apologize. In the end, he knows how much we are devoted to our children.
Have you cleared your mind with your friends?
It’s clear, but I’m angry (laughs). While talking, I typed on Facebook at once. He asked loudly what he was doing. I’m typing and I’m very angry (laughs) like we want to vent.
Afraid that the relationship with this friend will decrease?
Well, this friend is the one who said this. He loved us. He was worried. The last thing he said was that if that day if someone else heard this sentence, Max can’t read. Then he will stare at us like this. But we already said that we don’t care about other people at all. Other people are not with us 24 hours, not in the moment of 9 months of pregnancy. What do we have to face? We send children to school. Back to homework, we have to check. There are so many things in one life that we don’t announce to people about our children. We only post happiness. I want the followers to see only happiness. I don’t want it to be negative.
With children is the number one big thing?
It’s our number one big one. Wherever we go, our children will be with us. If the child does not have school If followers will know Wherever we go, we have children everywhere.
Another issue, live time People will comment that they bring their children to earn a living?
feel nothing We see that we are raising children. not forcing him to come live with us He saw one role that we are professional online sellers. You see us every day He absorbs the things we sell. It’s good He was just this and he was addicted to helping his mother make a living. We didn’t tell you to go and cook chili paste. He just came to have fun when we were selling stuff. but want to say want to sell It’s one thing that taught him to learn. One’s life is short, do not know what will happen in the future. If one day we are not here Little want here, what he is, makes him learn how to live. how do you make a living His mother is a good example. We didn’t abuse our children, we didn’t force them to sit here. It was his willingness to come and live with us. When he sits for a long time, he gets bored and gets up and we don’t say anything.
Many people still haven’t moved on our old story?
Yes (how to do it?) I didn’t think much. You already know what we do is not a bad thing. We know the purpose of each day. We do everything we can to raise our children. As long as he’s alive, he’s not encroaching on other people. or make others suffer I’m not afraid that doing this will cause people to curse. Doing this is good for me and my child. As for who would say it was about him? no longer kept as a matter but will feel it if it’s someone close to you talking Would you feel that you didn’t know us? You know me This shouldn’t come to me. Simply put, if it’s someone we love, it’s a friend, family, if we talk about it, we’ll feel sentimental. But if someone else let it pass But if it’s severe to the child to the parents, it won’t be okay, won’t let go and sue at all
The past made us stronger?
It’s been since Maxwell. Drama is not just born when Emily. At Maxwell, we were hit all the time by Chinese fans. from the side he chose Which many people may not focus on what we are hit, but in fact, we have been directed since Maxwell’s pregnancy, at this time it’s been 7-8 years, not just recently. can cope with it
7-8 years, not much time at all?
If we are happy we can endure it. But the corner that is not fun is also tiring. Sometimes people who are raising children and working will have less sleep, not enough rest, and their mood swings. When Emily was pregnant, she felt down. But luck got up able to recover Isn’t anyone strong all the time? We are just a woman There was a lot of crying, thinking too much, thinking shortly, it happened.
Not many people know this angle?
Yes, we are people who try to be strong. I don’t want anyone to suffer with us. I want the people next to us to be happy with us. The troubled corners can be kept quickly. Keep a lot. When it comes out, it’s heavy. (Afraid to keep a lot? Does it result in depression?) That one had to consult a doctor. Have you ever thought of what we are? I consulted all. I think the doctor should know better than we are normal or not. Had a period of depression, a short-term postpartum condition at that time, short thought I can get through it.
